Love a person, don't love too much, because you may find that it is only your own efforts and one's initiative, but the other person turns a deaf ear.
Love is unreasonable and unfounded, and its occurrence may be random.
There are more than 7 billion people coming and going on the earth. Everyone will meet many people, know many people and know many people in his life, but it seems that few people can really touch their hearts.
It seems to be a low probability event that two people can look at each other, appreciate each other and have a good impression after meeting.
Therefore, it is really not easy to meet someone you like and have a good impression on each other.
If fate favors you and you are lucky enough to meet it, please cherish it, restrain your bad temper and willfulness, consider the problem from the other side's point of view and think more about the other side.
If fate doesn't take care of you so much, and you meet someone who touches you, but that person doesn't like you at all, then please stay rational and sober, don't deceive yourself, and don't be moved by yourself.
Because falling in love with someone who doesn't love himself is extremely painful and difficult.
Not contacting you doesn't mean he doesn't like you, but if a person always wants you to contact him actively, take the initiative to be nice to him. Even if you take the initiative, you may not necessarily respond.
Then you should see clearly at this time and understand that this person doesn't like you and doesn't love you.
A person has never cared about your preferences and never noticed those small details. Can you still use them? He's straight and doesn't care about girls? Is this a reason to prevaricate yourself? Of course not.
Because he may not be really straight, just straight to you. If it is a girl he likes very much, he may be considerate to the extreme.
He treats girls he doesn't like, probably not because his personality is the kind of personality that girls don't like, but because he never cares and doesn't pay attention to it, so he habitually chooses to ignore it.
People who really love you will try their best to care for you and take care of you. Even if you have never told him your worries or worries about this relationship, he will notice it through his careful observation.
For example, he will want to give you enough security because you are a sensitive and suspicious girl.
So he will always report his trip and situation when he can't see you, so as not to worry you and avoid the possibility of your doubt.
He will keep a proper distance from the opposite sex and will not cross the line. All this is just to reassure you.
He will also take the initiative to contact you from time to time, take time to chat with you by video phone every day, dispel your thoughts and ease the relationship between you two.
Because he really loves you, it is natural and logical for him to do all this.
Because to love someone is to love that person in the palm of your hand, and your heart is full of that person, so compared with this, it is sad not to love someone.
Although his eyes are clear, like a beam of light shining into your dark world, he can ignore you selectively, or simply ignore you because he doesn't love you.
He has many reasons to refuse your concern and your kindness, but what makes people feel desperate is that he just wants to accept your kindness but doesn't respond to your feelings, and hangs on you but simply refuses you. This is his behavior.
So you have to understand that he accepts your kindness to him, not necessarily because he has a good impression on you and likes you, but because no one will refuse others to be kind to him.
After all, it doesn't cost you anything, so why not?
You should be sensible, understand that not loving means not loving, and don't deceive yourself. You think your efforts and efforts will definitely impress each other and make them like you.
As everyone knows, this is just your simple imagination.
People who don't like you, no matter what you do, are nothing to him; People who don't love you, no matter how hard you work and how much pain you experience, turn a blind eye.
But what you don't know is that everything you have done for him is likely to be done for the girl he likes one day.
You are willing to give, and one day he will give to others.
Not loving is not loving. Please stop fooling yourself.