How did you stay in your old marriage?

1, I'm Avatar, a marriage counselor. I hope my answer is helpful to you. I have seen many cases, some of which are very confused. After many years of marriage, marriage seems to have reached a dead end. It seems that there is no big problem, but in fact it is like a stagnant pool without any hesitation. Seeing each other won't have any heartbeat. Even intimate relationships are due to responsibilities and obligations. Yes, in marriage, even loving each other is a kind of responsibility and obligation, because everyone has this obligation to meet the normal needs of their partners, otherwise the family will lose its due function. In addition to bearing and raising children, it is also the unshirkable responsibility of families to ensure each other's reasonable physiological needs and maintain social stability.

2. So, what do you rely on to stay in the old marriage? This is a kind of responsibility and a moral requirement for self. Of course, in modern society, temptations are also varied. Many people give up when there is a little problem in their marriage and go their separate ways. In fact, that is an attitude of avoiding problems and can't solve the problems existing in marriage. Of course, some people want to ask, is it enough to have responsibilities in marriage? No, there must be love. In fact, love is also a responsibility. Because you are the legal partner of the other person, it is your responsibility to love the other person. It can be said that responsibility is the most important cornerstone in marriage. Without a sense of responsibility, you will not hesitate to give up when you encounter problems. Without a sense of responsibility, you will be in high spirits when you meet someone you like a little after marriage.

In fact, in life, people have countless opportunities to meet people who may be their favorite. It must be a high probability thing, but some people are selfish and forget their responsibilities, while others can stick to their responsibilities and take responsibility. Therefore, I will restrain myself from losing my temper. Remember, in marriage, loving each other is also a responsibility. Because everyone needs love, if you don't love each other, others will have a chance, so men are still women. Remember, love is a responsibility, not arbitrary. Welcome to search the official account of WeChat: Happy Life Hotline.