An Jia: Gong Beibei takes care of the children in front of her in-laws. Is this appropriate? How to solve it?

Gong Beibei was forced to discipline her children in front of her in-laws, because she felt that what she said was wrong for both elderly people. As a junior, she can't say anything to the old man, so she can only discipline the children by herself.

The right and wrong of Gong Beibei and her in-laws. Gong Beibei is an obstetrician. She is a professional in children's health, but it is really unreasonable to conform to tradition.

When Gong Beibei came home, she found her father-in-law nursing her eldest son, who was in the middle class, and he was eating while watching the cartoon Piggy on his tablet. Whether such behavior is wrong for any young person, but the old people have different ideas, so she thinks that children will not argue and eat seriously.

When I met my youngest son, I began to eat complementary food, but my mother-in-law thought that breast milk was the best nutrition, and Gong Beibei, as a professional, of course knew that after the child was half a year old, breast milk basically had no nutrition, so there was a contradiction between them.

Gong Beibei educates children in front of parents. In fact, there is a practice of "killing chickens to show monkeys". In real life, it is definitely uncomfortable for an old man to reprimand a child in front of his parents-in-law. Otherwise, there would be no such word as "separated relatives" in our country.

Gong Beibei reprimanded the child, actually telling her parents-in-law that her son is hers, that she is a doctor, and that she knows how to educate her children better.

This move is actually a good way to criticize others, much better than those who quarrel with their parents. Besides, Gong Beibei has told the old people what their mistakes are, but they still think they are right, which is undoubtedly creating trouble for Gong Beibei.

To sum up, a marriage and family will always have different opinions and suggestions on the issue of house and children, but don't swear because of some small things, which will hurt feelings and will not bring good influence to children.