Because I am an only child, my parents always want me to go home for a blind date after graduation. I can understand them, too After all, it's too far. Think about them raising me for more than 20 years. If they don't meet for a year, their life will be really lonely.
I am on the horns of a dilemma. I am a lover and a parent. Your palms are full of meat.
Later, my boyfriend and I analyzed several solutions:
1, buy an extra house and bring your parents to Yantai.
This is unlikely for the time being. Boyfriend's family situation is average. He lives with his parents. Now his family has prepared a new house of 80 square meters for us, but we have to pay back the loan in the future. We all just started working, and we really can't afford to buy another suite. And I'm worried that no friends will get used to living here after my parents live here.
2. My parents are in my hometown, and I go back to see them occasionally.
I am just an ordinary office worker, and my work is very tense. I can only go back to see it on the New Year's Day, but it's a long way. I can't afford to take a plane for nearly three days by train. The time spent with my parents is too short, which makes me tired.
My parents come to Yantai several times a year, mostly in my hometown.
My parents are in poor health and can't afford a long trip. And when you get older, you can't stand it. Even if I hire a nanny for them in the future, I won't rest assured!