In Settle Down, the contradiction between Kan and his family broke out. What is the reason for the breakdown of their marriage?

The division of labor between men and women intensified the contradiction between husband and wife, and the derailment of Kan Wentao was the fuse, which completely cut off the relationship between the two.

Men are outside and women are inside? Cold and hard workplace division of labor.

When two people form a family, the original intention is to have a shelter from the wind and rain, and a pillow person to rely on at any time. Marriage is not a good choice if it is only to improve the efficiency of life and save personal living costs. Kan Wen Tao and his wife have worked hard together since they were young. Because their career is getting bigger and bigger, his wife has no choice but to stay at home and take care of things and give up the workplace. The system of division of labor between men and women naturally makes Naoto Kan's career in Wen Tao better and better, but this cold and rigid division of labor makes Mrs. Naoto Kan's own value forcibly reduced to almost zero, which is the most cruel harm to a woman with ideals and ambitions.

For a cheating man, Mrs. Naoto Kan gave up her workplace where she could shine at will, and lived in this small house of 100 square meter, becoming an dissatisfied wife and burying all her youth and friends. Under this division of labor, Wen Tao, Naoto Kan, did not understand his wife's sacrifice, and Mrs. Naoto Kan was always soft-hearted, making the rift between husband and wife comparable to Mariana Trench.

Yan derailed? Men's instinctive pursuit of new things.

It is a well-known truth that men become bad when they have money. In the case of a double harvest of family and career, the most instinctive curiosity in men begins to play a role. With the beautiful girl, Kan Wen Tao began to get lost, and he felt the youthful passion that had not appeared for a long time. This kind of neglect and extremely irresponsible behavior towards the family finally detonated the rift between husband and wife. Because of the pressure of knowing or not, the little self-esteem that had been left behind was crushed in the dust again by this little girl, and Mrs. Naoto Kan's sense of independence finally returned. Husband doesn't cherish? Home? Like a joke, it's not enough to put all your youth into it? Are you going to spend the rest of your life in sorrow?

Finally, Mrs. Kan's divorce choice is the misfortune of her family, but it is her greatest kindness to herself.