Yan Qing finally got married, but the wedding spent all his parents' life savings.
Yan Qing and Han Xiao have been dating for three years, and marriage has been put on the agenda, but the most important thing "house" is gone. Han Xiao's family asked the man to buy a house in Beijing, and the loan after the down payment was borne by the two. This makes Yan Qing feel a lot of pressure. Although the monthly salary is more than 20 thousand, the down payment of more than one million is still stretched.
Faced with the woman's pressing step by step and watching her son's sad face, Yan Qing's parents took out all the pension money, borrowed a circle from relatives and friends, and finally settled their son in Beijing. At the wedding, people only saw the bright red happy characters, but did not notice their parents' haggard faces and gray hair.
Feng Lun said that the mother-in-law is an important force to promote the rise in housing prices, and in a sense, so are young people. Under the banner of thinking about her daughter's happiness, her mother-in-law made various demands on the man's family, but she didn't pay attention to the future development of her son-in-law. She thought that she would be happy if she married a rich family now, but she didn't know that the money was accumulated by the boy's parents bit by bit.
Maybe you will say that boys who can't afford a house are not worth marrying, and girls shouldn't suffer with poor boys. But I want to ask you why young people in their twenties are required to have millions of assets, and how many people can really meet this requirement? I don't know if you have ever been to the blind date corner. The first requirement for girls is a local house. Is this a requirement for boys or parents?
I saw an interview titled: How much do you think a 30-year-old man should have? Most girls' answers are around 1 million.
What does this mean? I graduated from college at the age of 22 and saved120,000 every year. I graduated with a master's degree at the age of 25, and I have to save 200,000 yuan every year. I want to ask the boys, how many of you can meet the requirements? I want to ask the girls, how much money did you have when you were thirty?
Having no house in his twenties does not mean that this boy is not enterprising, nor does it mean that he is incompetent and has little room for development. It is normal for young people to have no money. We have an ordinary family, so don't compare with Rainbow Sicong who practice with hundreds of millions of dollars.