Men naturally like chasing, which is related to their genes, so what girls need to do is to show their excellent side to men and attract their attention. Once you attract him, he will start chasing you instead of you, so that men will only want to escape or find you unattractive.
Men hate women's oppression, just like expressing their love or wanting to get a response. A woman forcing a boy to speak aggressively will make him very rebellious and resistant. Women should know that men only talk when they need it, and they hate being chased endlessly by others.
Here, Brother Xu tells you what you should do to attract him.
1. The first trait is self-confidence. Confident women will attract men, and your behavior will inspire them to show their best. Never deny yourself or even be depressed. Dress yourself up, enrich your life, try to master a skill, get recognition from others, and slowly your confidence will return.
Don't regard men as the apple of your eye. Once you do this, your status will drop by yourself. Men are more willing to experience the pleasure of conquering women than passively accepting their love.
3. Don't give everything you have.
Love is not compensation for debt. Men pay women because they care about and love her, not as compensation for debts. But when a man thinks that a woman has given him too much, he has to force him to pay in return and will only run away.
Having said that, Xu Ge actually wants to tell you that you should not take the initiative to give yourself to others as an extra ticket, but turn yourself into a gem and shine his eyes before he comes to you. Also, if you are already excellent, but the other person is indifferent, it depends on whether he likes your type or not, and whether you can become his favorite type. If you can't, then give up. It's like chasing girls. Even if you try to catch up, she will compare you with others in the end, so you can't stop satisfying her. Once you do something bad, you will be broken up. What's the point of such feelings, right? It is more important to find someone who cherishes you.