Xiaomei's story

Just in the ninth grade, Xiaomei attended a classmate's party, but there was no adult present to supervise. 40-50 children of different ages drank a lot of wine, and the scene was out of control.

Xiaomei is very excited because her happy boy Xiao Hai is there. Xiaohai is two years older than himself. At school, handsome Xiaohai is the object pursued by many girls.

That night was special. Xiaohai noticed Xiaomei. Even better, Xiaohai sat next to Xiaomei, drinking and chatting with her. They snuggled up and chatted in the garden.

After a while, Xiao Hai took Xiaomei by the hand and took her to a house on the second floor. There is no one in that room. They had sex.

The first sexual experience was faster than expected, and it was rough. Although alcohol makes Xiaomei a little delirious, she knows everything she encounters.

From the excitement of being noticed by Xiaohai to physical discomfort, being violated and insulted. It will all be over soon. Xiaohai gave Xiaomei a kiss, dressed in a hurry and left.

Xiaomei packed herself up and walked into the party again. At this time, her heart was full of anxiety and her body kept shaking. Then, she saw Xiaohai and his friends pointing at her, showing malicious smiles.

Xiaomei understands that Xiaohai is telling them a "conquest story". She ran away from the house with tears in her eyes. A friend asked her what happened, but she wouldn't say anything.

At home, Xiaomei's heart was full of anger. She hates Xiaohai and all the boys. Xiaomei's parents are very busy at work, so let her take care of herself.

Xiaomei didn't tell her parents about it until three years later, in a psychological consultation, her parents learned what had happened.

Xiaomei hid the wound and moved on, but now she is not what she used to be.

Did this experience make her reject that boy? No, what she refused was her weakness and being used. She began to choose to sleep with boys. At the age of 17, she finally talked to a psychologist. She had sex with seven different boys.

Why didn't Xiaomei tell her parents?

Parents should be the safest barrier and patron saint for children. No matter what you have experienced outside, you will always be the baby of your parents.

Don't go through the pain alone. Some things are wrong. Although I can't do it anymore, with the support of my parents, I won't be hurt again.

Parents should not attack and criticize their children, especially when they do something wrong. Children need our patient guidance and encouragement.

Love children unconditionally, parents are their guardians!