1, appropriate tolerance, there is no need to accept puppy love. Because the child has entered adolescence, sexual physiological development is relatively normal, which is also a natural physiological law. Instead of denying and refusing, it is better to tolerate and accept appropriately, and to communicate with children equally to understand the reasons for their puppy love.
2. Actively communicate and encourage children to have more sense of responsibility. Communicate with children on an equal footing and explain the dangers of puppy love, such as endangering study, distracting attention and endangering interpersonal relationships. Encourage them to mature as soon as possible, improve their level of understanding, be responsible for love, realize the harm of puppy love by themselves, and turn the problem of puppy love into the motivation of learning.
3. Actively educate and guide children, telling them that if they enter the adult world, there may be problems of falling in love or loving others. This is a normal psychological and physical development process. Don't be too anxious, and parents should not be too nervous.
4, increase children's ability to control behavior, especially when children have too many concerns about love and problems between men and women, they should also exercise appropriate restraint, because if there is a very strong love impulse, it may affect learning and distract attention. It is easy to damage academic performance.
5. Change the motivation of learning appropriately, so that love, especially puppy love, becomes the motivation of studying hard, so that you can get better and learn better slowly.
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