I remember seeing this sentence on Netease Cloud Hot Review:
"Can't walk, just look back. Those who love but can't let go. If you
I remember seeing this sentence on Netease Cloud Hot Review:
"Can't walk, just look back. Those who love but can't let go. If you don't get a response, you should know enough is enough. When others don't need you, you should learn to take back your enthusiasm and leave politely. "
-No.1-
Lao Yang fell in love with a girl when she participated in the marathon. It was love at first sight.
After the marathon, Lao Yang immediately asked for the girl's WeChat.
After signing up for WeChat, Lao Yang reported to the girls on time every day and chatted with them every day. Even though the girls' reaction is not enthusiastic or even indifferent, Lao Yang is still determined to be attentive to her every day.
Every time a girl hurts her circle of friends during her physiological period, Lao Yang will immediately send her warm baby and brown sugar water when she sees it, although the girl won't look at him directly or say thank you.
Lao Yang knew that girls liked Japanese food, so Lao Yang did his homework to see which Japanese food was more delicious and which Japanese food had more favorable comments. He takes girls to dinner once a week on average.
It was also on the100th day that when Lao Yang met the girls, he decided to tell them.
On that day, he prepared flowers, bought a necklace, dressed in a formal suit and booked a room in a western restaurant, full of love.
Lao Yang did his homework. At the moment he confessed to the girl, the girl refused without thinking. The reason is that she is not ready and doesn't know each other clearly.
At this time, Lao Yang thought, it doesn't matter, he can wait, maybe the girl is really not ready.
In this way, Lao Yang worked as a dog licker for one year and one month, and made a confession three times, but the girl still said that she was not ready.
-Second-
Suddenly one day, on his way home from the Internet cafe, he and his friends were going to buy a cup of hot milk tea for a girl, and suddenly they found that girl was kissing a boy.
Lao Yang was disheartened in an instant.
He finally understood that it was not that she was not ready, but that she had no intention of being with him at all.
Since then, Lao Yang has never looked for a girl.
About a week or so, the girl took the initiative to WeChat Lao Yang. If at first, the girls would take the initiative to find Lao Yang, and Lao Yang would be happy all day, showing off his girls looking for him everywhere.
It's just that Lao Yang is no longer happy, only sad in his heart.
Lao Yang said to the girl:
"I really like you, but you never intend to be with me. You like you only because of me. I will never look for you again, and my love for you ends here. "
-Third-
Later, the old Cindy Yang never looked for the girl again, nor did he reply to any information of the girl.
He shielded all the girls' movements and automatically shielded all the joy and enthusiasm for girls.
Lao Yang said:
"I thought that everything I did could touch her, and finally I was the only one who was touched.
Now I finally understand that true love has a response. It's like when I saw her real boyfriend, she took the initiative to hold his shoulder.
I'm tired, I don't want to lose the last bit of dignity, and I won't be too enthusiastic about anyone in the future. "
Many people are used to saying that they are lonely and brave, but in the end they find that all your loneliness is just your wishful thinking.
What you think is promising has never sprouted in other people's eyes.
-Fourth-
In fact, you can feel whether a person likes you or not.
Those who can't catch up with you even if you take ten steps have never really liked you.
So, if you don't get a reply after sending a message, don't send a second message; If you don't answer one phone call, don't call the second one.
When your enthusiasm will never be rewarded, you should know that enough is enough.
I once saw such a sentence on Weibo:
"You should set a deadline for yourself. Even if you like someone again, as long as this period is over, you will say to yourself, I am no longer rare. "
People who don't love you, don't bite the bullet and bother again.
Dear friends, remember that in every relationship in the future, don't mistreat every enthusiasm, don't please any indifference, and the enthusiasm that can't be responded should be enough. Be more self-aware and less complacent.