However, no matter what I think, I still have no idea in the end. After all, now my logical thinking is all messed up and I can't find my own problems. The involuntary result is that he doesn't want it for a while, so the way to stay is just crying and saying: I'm sorry, I'll change. I will listen to you in the future and never quarrel with you again.
Like that? What's the use?
In most cases, it is worthless, and even develops in the opposite direction. Usually your final happy brand image is revealed, and he will continue to be bored, avoid you and be unwilling to pay attention to you. Even though he was indecisive for a while, he finally agreed to get back together with you. How long do you think our relationship will last?
If you don't handle the differences in your feelings, you can't stay at all. At best, you try your best to save them. If it is not changed, it will continue to move to the original road even if it is compounded 100 times.
It's easy to understand the feeling of wanting to stay, but what I expect more is that you can calm down now. Even if you are in a bad mood, you will recover one day. When your mood is relieved, think about what happened between you.
If you recover, I hope you can think about these problems-
1. How did you attract him and get together with him emotionally?
2. In the communication, there are many happy days. _ Are there many disputes?
There are many happy days and many disputes.
4. What's the problem between us that separates us? Don't be superficial, and don't stare at the fuse of the last separation. )
Calm down and think about it? One day is bad for two days, two days is bad for a week, and you will find your own answer.
Naturally, in fact, I don't need to ask carefully at all, and I can easily understand every answer clearly. After all, all relationships, from the beginning to the end, look different, but in fact they are strikingly similar-
Everyone is attracted by each other's bright spots, communicate deeply and choose their peers. At first, happiness was more than friction. After all, under the impact of love, all differences are insignificant. Who cares?
With the change of _, mutual contact increases, the contradiction between consciousness difference and logical thinking becomes more obvious, and there are more and more quarrels, but no one is willing to give in, or one of them has been giving in. In fact, this has laid a suspense for breaking up?
But in any case, there is good news after all: he once loved you, and you succeeded in attracting him, so you still have the ability to attract him again, even? Let him look back positively and let him retain you again. These are not imaginary!
But you must also know what attracts him, where it is very easy to cause his resistance, what advantages are conducive to the development trend of everyone's feelings, and what shortcomings are holding everyone back.
In fact, you know all this clearly, but you just don't know it. You always feel that you won't hurt your's feelings, or that he can tolerate you, so you won't easily choose to break up with you, so it will become more and more intense. Finally, he touched his moral bottom line and chose to break up with you clearly.
Ok, now tell me, are you ready?
If the answer is no doubt, please continue reading, which is the key factor to find feelings: making changes.
Change point 1:
You attracted him, so you know which ladies he likes, and you also know what advantages you have. Ok, please take this forward.
Change point 2:
What is the reason why you make him feel cold again and again? What caused everyone to break up with you? That is to say, is there a problem with his handling of your retention and concession? Is he unwilling to choose the compound type and worried that his feelings will collapse again?
Everyone knows the truth of learning from each other's strengths, but it is difficult to do it in real life. I hope you can stick to it. Why don't you make a table for yourself, give full play to your advantages, add one point, expose the tragic deduction of shortcomings 1 point, and list the number of new projects that have been greatly deducted today. See if the addition at the end of each day coincides with _ as negative?
If you really develop good habits, you can have a feeling of turning over a new leaf. Even if you can't find it, if you stand in front of him, it is very easy to make him shine at the moment.
Change point 3:
It is not enough to guarantee the above, but also let the other party keep you. As long as the above two points are guaranteed, we can only return to the "starting point". Going back to the starting point means that everyone is attracted to each other and must go again.
If you want him to really shine at the moment and feel that it is wrong to separate from you, then change from the beginning. Skin care, whitening, fitness and fat reduction are indispensable. Boys are visual microbes after all, and being with you for a long time will produce visual aesthetic fatigue, which is also one of the reasons for the unsuccessful retention.