Always ask some very powerful questions, I really don't know how to answer them, after all, my ability is limited.
For example, at the end of February this year, my high school classmates, after seeing my career change, became the official account of WeChat and asked me questions again. Asked me once last year, and I recommended some information to him.
The questions asked this year are rather strange. Ask if you are here first, don't go straight to the point.
I said yes, what can I do for you?
He said it was nothing and wanted to talk to me.
My heart is broken. You can chat with me and catch up. Just invite me to dinner. What's there to chase online? How can I catch up with you during working hours (I just woke up at noon)?
It's rude to say it directly: when can I say it directly? In this fast-paced society, I really don't have time to chat with you and catch up?
Only then did he focus on asking me: What did the official WeChat account do?
On my head, 10 thousand commas (be civilized and don't run around) float by. I've been telling you this question for three days and nights.
This is the first one.
Last Monday, I was in a new media exchange group, sharing my experience of being a penguin before I switched careers. What I said is very reasonable, and I also shared my running post. Of course someone will add me.
I am also happy to help others. After that, I will be there first, and then throw me a sound.
Do you think I am free and have a lot of time and convenience? Is it necessary to listen to your voice? Don't worry, I won't care about you. I don't know what respect is.
This is the second one.
Yesterday, another one. See the article about penguins that I shared from Zhihu, and add it to me. After the passage, let me first say: how is your work from the media?
Does this have much to do with you?
Just ask a question and describe your question directly. Ask me about my privacy. I made it clear in my article, so I don't believe it.
Seeing these questions, I just want to say: I won't ask questions. How can others help you?
So you read this article, whether at work or in self-improvement, learning to ask questions can greatly improve the help you want.
Simply put:
Don't pay others, others are willing to help you.
Spend money consulting others, don't waste time, grasp the key points, solve problems, save time and money.
So I just share a few ways to get a high response to my questions. The penultimate trick is to try the lark.
1. Ask questions and describe your problems directly.
What is a direct description of your problem, that is, what you want to achieve and what difficulties you have encountered now.
That's it. Ask questions with practical questions.
Just like the first question I said above, in this fast-paced era, no one really wants to waste time catching up with you, chatting, saying something directly and replying to you directly when they see it.
And I haven't contacted for many years, so I suddenly contacted the WeChat chat window: Are you there?
I don't even know if there are stormy waves and hidden dangers behind this.
Whether you want to borrow money or get married.
I didn't expect it anyway. You need to communicate with me if you have any questions.
Of course, there is also a small partner who just comes to discuss it.
For example:
Somebody else: What do you think of the typography and text of my official WeChat account?
Me: I think your article should be written so that users can understand it, and don't flatter yourself.
Somebody else: Is my article complacent? Are you high? I don't think so.
Me: Mm-hmm, it's good not to.
Basically, we don't need to ask such questions.
You just need someone to recognize you. Let's just say, you don't have to waste time, because I really took the time to finish reading your article; Take the time to understand what I personally think can be modified. After the whole thing, you don't accept your point of view and refute it.
So there is absolutely no need to delay each other's time.
If you need recognition, go directly to a treasure to search praise groups, satisfy your desire in minutes and praise you to the sky.
2. Ask small, detailed and specific questions, not big, general and empty questions.
How to understand this sentence is simply to ask closed questions, not open questions. What is closing?
Are you a man or a woman? This is a closed question;
What's your gender? This is an open question.
Go back to my first friend's question above and ask me what the official WeChat account did.
I really don't have a week to talk about this problem.
I really can't finish. I want to talk about user thinking, typesetting, writing articles (I don't write very well either), and I also want to drain all kinds of sundries.
3. mention the difficulties you met, not the ones you imagined.
What are the problems encountered in practice?
I have been an official WeChat account for two or three months, but my fans have always been in double digits. I also tried to forward it to the group and to the circle of friends to see if I could increase it, but I didn't. How do I practice and do this?
So what is the imaginary problem?
It is said that the official account opening rate of WeChat is getting lower and lower, and it is increasingly difficult for fans to grow. Can I grow into an official WeChat account now?
God knows if your official WeChat account can be powdered.
No actual action, no actual operation. I will teach you the methods and steps in detail, but you may not be able to do it well. Only by really doing it, encountering problems and asking questions can it be valuable. To put it bluntly, I will give you a hint. The problem you are facing now can be done in minutes.
4. Skills to improve the response rate
Respect others, praise others.
Everyone likes to wear a high hat, and everyone wants to be respected. When you meet a polite person, the chances of answering questions are also increased many times.
And ask? How to boast?
For example, hello, leader, I am not your best subordinate, but I am your most loyal fan. Since you came to the company, you have not worked overtime every day, and your performance has improved several times. How do you manage your time?
I didn't speak well enough. Anyway, I just praised others. Don't clap horseshoes, be reasonable.
2 direct red envelopes.
If you haven't contacted for a long time, it suddenly occurs to you that someone can help you and you can't find the right person.
Then you can send a red envelope directly, then praise it and describe the problem. You don't have to describe the emotional relationship at length, just describe the problem directly.
Whether you can get a red envelope is a matter for others, but seeing such sincerity, answering your questions and helping you will improve your chances of winning a lot.
③ Respect others.
Don't come up and ask directly,
What am I doing? Is it suitable?
Is there a future for new media to operate this industry?
Is the media suitable for me?
Where are your manners?
You are not my boss, so you didn't pay me.
I am not your father, so there is no reason to answer your question.
Throw a question when you come up, which makes me feel that I have to answer your question, which makes others very unhappy.
More importantly, as mentioned above, you can throw a sound directly through it.
Really, it's convenient for you Voice messages are sent directly without typing.
But is it convenient for others? I'm at work. Maybe it's not convenient to listen to the sound now. Sometimes the environment is too noisy, they basically listen to it once, and they can't hear clearly what they are saying. They have to listen to it several times. How can they have so much leisure to listen to your nonstandard Mandarin? Where is Barabara?
Respect for others means respect for yourself.