A treasure mother exposed her daughter's and son's room, causing countless mothers to sing bad songs. I believe many treasure moms have had such an experience: they came home from hard work, took a rest in the living room, trudged to the door of the children's room and saw the room collapse instantly. The children's room was like a thief, and everything was turned out.
When Ma Bao collapsed, he did not forget to photograph the children's "crime scene", indicating that the children's room was like this every day, and the daughter in the first grade was a little better, with few things. However, the quilts and pillows on the bed are piled together, and the exercise books on the table are scattered all over the floor. It took her a long time to help her daughter put away her brush. A big bucket of brushes looks spectacular.
Look at my son's toy room. Toys are thrown everywhere and small stools are put aside. All the toys that should have been put in the storage box were poured out, and the box was knocked over. The room is not big, but there are toys all over the floor. Don't waste anything when people enter the room. The toys on the shelf were not spared. They should be neatly arranged, but now they are crooked on the shelf.
After the photos were posted online, countless parents commented below: "It's so true, my family also has a baby with the same model." Many parents are too tired to clean up and leave their children behind. It seems that children really annoy parents.
When children grow up, apart from studying, what parents often say to them is "tidy up the room". Ma Bao spits out the child's room, and the child spits out Ma Bao's verbosity. Many stay-at-home mothers clean the house after cooking for their families every day, but mothers can't help their children clean the house all their lives. Sometimes, after they help clean up, they will be blamed by the children for looking for something. It is better for children to organize themselves than to help them.
1, let children have autonomy.
The children's room is a mess in the eyes of adults, but in the eyes of children, they are impressed by everything. It's not that children don't know that the room needs cleaning, but the way of cleaning is different from that of adults.
Parents may wish to let their children clean up and let them have autonomy. When they grow up, they will consciously put things away and have their own storage rules.
2, the embodiment of creativity
For very young children, playing with things means exploring the world. They will draw pictures everywhere, play with this toy for a while and play with that toy for a while. These exploration processes are also the embodiment of children's creativity. Parents don't have to worry about looking at their children's messy rooms. They can relax and let their children create.
Many parents will constantly blame their children's messy rooms, which makes them bored and inhibits their creativity. Playing is a child's nature. Children may be "naughty" at a certain stage, and it is beneficial for parents to properly manage and guide them.
Parents can divide play areas according to their children's play and play with their children in that area. In play, children not only stimulate creativity, but also know where there are rules and cultivate their sense of boundaries. If they cross the line, they can't just do it.
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