However, in the face of parents quarreling every year during the Spring Festival, you can also try the following methods to alleviate this situation:
1. Understand the reason:
? Try to understand why parents quarrel during the Spring Festival. This may be due to stress, fatigue or family chores. Knowing the root of the problem will help you find a solution.
2. Communication:
? Talk frankly with your parents about your feelings and worries, and let them know how their quarrel affects you and other family members. It is suggested to have a conversation when the atmosphere is relaxed and avoid raising this question when they are emotional.
3. Mediation of contradictions:
? If you know the specific problems that cause their quarrel, you can try to help them solve the problems or provide solutions. This may require you to act as a mediator, but make sure you are not involved in their conflict.
4. Share responsibility:
? During the Chinese New Year, try to share some housework and preparations to reduce the pressure on parents. This can help them stay calm and reduce the possibility of quarreling.
Divert attention:
? When parents start quarreling, try to distract them, such as inviting them to play games, watch movies or participate in other family activities.
6. Seek professional help:
? If the situation is serious and you can't handle it yourself, you can consider seeking the help of a professional marriage counselor or psychological counselor. They can provide your parents with effective communication skills and conflict resolution strategies.
7. Set an example:
? As a child, you can show your parents how to handle differences in a peaceful way through your own behavior. When encountering different opinions, keep calm and communicate with others rationally.
8. Adjust the mentality:
? Faced with such a situation, you need to adjust your mentality and try not to let your parents' quarrels affect your mood. Remember, you can't control other people's behavior, but you can control your own reaction.
Most importantly, you should be patient and caring, and support and care for your parents as much as possible. Sometimes, understanding and acceptance are more important than change.