How fragile is the relationship between men and women?
Once upon a time, I said "I love you", but in the end I couldn't beat the word "break up"
And people are so strange. When you say goodbye, hang up and delete WeChat. Your mind is full of each other's bad feelings, his indifference, his indifference and his incomprehension. .....
You decided to break up and never talk to each other again. From then on, you and I are on both sides of the river, separated by a river forever.
But after a while, it won't take long, maybe three days, maybe a week, you can't help thinking about him, asking about his recent situation, and longing for him to apologize mainly to you;
You will feel how hurt and childish you are when you say those cruel words and stubbornness.
After reading one emotional chicken soup after another, I feel that every sentence is about myself. So, you started desperately looking for opportunities to get back together.
But in the process of saving love, most people lack systematic and executable processes and methods, and their emotions are out of control, so they become desperate.
Blind behavior not only pushes the other person farther and farther, but also makes him hate himself more. This is a problem that the heart wants something but is unable to do it.
After breaking up, the following four behaviors are the most attractive, which will only make you cheaper and cheaper, and even the last hope of recovery will be destroyed by you.
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Attack each other when breaking up.
Which couple is not broken, very much in love? But in the end, how many people can really break up peacefully?
When most people end their relationship, they can be compared to the scene of a car accident, disparaging each other, abusing each other and even fighting. The first love became the last killing.
Awei was completely out of control when she broke up with her ex-boyfriend. Two people scold each other, scold each other's family, and two people throw things at the same time.
On the day of parting, they smashed all the pots and pans at home. The ex-boyfriend smashed the Cartier watch she had given her before, and awei burned the clothes she had given her before. ......
Although awei is an exception, there are still many people who are out of control when they break up. The more you don't want to hear, the more you say something to expose the shortcomings of others and deny them. ......
Why do many people really die after breaking up? Because in the end, each other became the most familiar enemies.
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Stalking and beating after breaking up.
After being lovelorn, people who curl up together will only be beaten for two reasons: most people think that this is a kind of crazy love and persistence, so that they can touch each other and get back together with themselves.
Others clearly know that there is no result in stalking, but they become helpless because they are at a loss. Like a man trapped in a swamp. Because I can't catch any straws, I have been struggling, but I am getting deeper and deeper.
After breaking up, stubbornly contacting each other to get back together will not only make you mean, but also make you look particularly selfish.
Because after breaking up, you just want to satisfy your desire to contact each other and alleviate the pain of breaking up, so get back together.
But you completely ignored each other's feelings, and you didn't consider the reason why he left you from each other's point of view.
This kind of behavior is like telling each other: I am so selfish and overbearing. After breaking up, I only knew that I was in pain. I don't want to suffer I don't care how you feel. I just want to get back together anyway.
Stalking will not only bring trouble to the other party, but also seriously reduce your pattern. Once the relationship has a bad pattern, it is difficult to go back.
You lost your dignity in obsession. Do you think the other person will still look up to you and cherish you?