Since Jiang Yougang and Liu Ya divorced, there has been no intersection. Who knows, last week, Liu Ya called and asked to meet Jiang Yougang. As soon as they met, Liu Ya told Jiang Yougang emotionally that she wanted to remarry. But Jiang Yougang was unmoved, because Liu Ya hurt him so much that he could never go back in this life.
Today, Jiang Yougang is no longer the man who coaxed his wife all day and worked hard and was sent by her husband's family.
Seven years ago, under the introduction of friends, he met Liu Ya. Liu Ya is handsome, lively and generous with long hair and shawls. Jiang Yougang fell in love with her at first sight. Under the enthusiastic pursuit of Jiang Yougang, Liu Ya agreed to marry him.
Finally, Jiang Yougang doted on Liu Ya. After marriage, Jiang Yougang basically managed the housework alone. Liu Ya said to Jiang Yougang, "My parents only have two children, me and my brother. My brother's business is my business in the future." In order to please his wife, Jiang Yougang nodded and agreed.
Other people's son-in-law goes to his mother-in-law's house, and her mother-in-law cooks and entertains. But every time Jiang Yougang goes to his mother-in-law's house, he buys food and cooks. At the beginning, his mother-in-law praised him for being sensible and capable. After a long time, my mother-in-law habitually asked him to cook, taking this for granted.
After the marriage, Jiang Yougang resigned and started a business. He not only wants to pull business everywhere, but also travels and socializes. Sometimes I have to cook when I go home after working overtime, and I feel physically and mentally exhausted and a little overwhelmed. Therefore, Jiang Yougang wants Liu Ya to learn to do housework. Liu Ya flew into a rage and said to Jiang Yougang, "When we were in love, we agreed that you would do all the housework after marriage. Since you took me home, you still want to cheat. " Jiang Yougang can't do anything about her.
After Liu Ya married Jiang Yougang, she not only ate and drank ready-made, but also gave her children to Jiang Yougang's mother. She either makes up all day or goes shopping. After Jiang Yougang's business got on the right track, Liu Ya resigned and became a full-time wife at home.
Liu Ya doesn't want to go to work, but Jiang Yougang doesn't care. Anyway, he earns enough money to spend. Jiang Yougang loves his wife very much and trusts her very much. He left all the money he earned to his wife for management.
Last year, Liu Ya and Jiang Yougang discussed that their younger brother was getting married, and the woman asked to buy a wedding room. Liu Ya said that the money in parents' pockets is only enough to pay for bride price, car purchase and wedding expenses. As for buying a house, there is definitely no money. Finally, Liu Ya said, "Husband, I only have this younger brother. Why don't we help him buy a suite?"
After hearing this, Jiang Yougang felt a little embarrassed. Although they live in third-tier cities, a suite in a slightly remote location now needs at least 700,000 to 800,000 yuan. He refused his wife, and Liu Ya came up with another idea and said to him, "Why don't we give my brother a down payment of 200,000 yuan and let him repay the loan himself?" Can't stand Liu Ya's indecision, Jiang Yougang agreed.
With the help of Jiang Yougang, my brother-in-law got married smoothly. However, three months later, the relationship between Jiang Yougang and his wife broke down. It turned out to be a matter of buying a house for his brother-in-law.
Shortly after his brother-in-law got married, Jiang Yougang received a big bill, but he needed to do something himself. After Jiang Yougang signed the contract, he asked Liu Ya for the down payment at home.
Who knows that Liu Ya only withdrew 400,000 deposits. Although Jiang Yougang doesn't care about the money at home, he still knows the amount of money he takes home. Jiang Yougang roughly calculated that Liu Ya had saved at least1200,000 yuan. My brother-in-law got married and gave 200 thousand. Liu Ya should have a deposit of1000000.
Jiang Yougang asked his wife where all the money was spent. Liu Ya said helplessly that she spent 800,000 yuan to buy a suite for her brother without telling her husband.
Jiang Yougang thought that after so many years of marriage, Liu Ya didn't feel sorry for himself at all. Children don't want to bring, do housework, and go out to work to make money. My wife gave money to her mother's family for three days, and now she bought a house for her brother-in-law in full without telling herself. These heavy responsibilities are all on Jiang Yougang's shoulders. Jiang Yougang and Liu Ya had a big fight. Such a day, he really can't hold on. He asked Liu Ya for a divorce, and Liu Ya cried and begged for his forgiveness. Jiang Yougang said he was tired and decided to divorce Liu Ya.
After Jiang Yougang's divorce, he finally made use of his contacts to tide over the difficulties, and the company's business is booming. After Liu Ya's divorce, she lived in her parents' house all day because she had been divorced from society for too long, so she couldn't find an easy job, which was very hard and she didn't want to do it.
After a long time, my sister-in-law began to dislike her. Although Liu Ya bought my brother's house, the property is in the name of my brother and sister-in-law. Liu Ya's mother also advised her to ask Jiang Yougang's forgiveness. Liu Ya regretted it. She began to miss the carefree life her husband had created for her. She often goes to see her children, hoping to use them as a link to remarry her ex-husband.
At this time, Jiang Yougang had seen through Liu Ya's inner world, and he vowed never to be an ATM for his ex-wife.
Emotional conclusion:
Out of love and trust, Jiang Yougang gave his hard-earned money to Liu Ya for care. It happened that Liu Ya failed to live up to her husband's trust. After her husband agreed to contribute 200,000 yuan to her younger brother, she also took out 600,000 yuan to buy a house for her younger brother without telling her husband. Such behavior is disrespectful to her husband, and she paid a heavy price for it, pushing her marriage to a desperate situation.
Mutual respect is the premise of harmonious coexistence between husband and wife. Only by respecting each other can we achieve real equality. A year after Liu Ya divorced her husband, she tasted the ups and downs of life before she suddenly realized. This is really a sentence: "If I had known this, why should I have?"
After a woman gets married, she can't help her family indefinitely, or she will eventually get divorced. Everyone's happiness depends on themselves and with the help of others, but not at the expense of others.
After a woman gets married, she must grasp the scale of helping her family, and can't sacrifice her marital happiness for her family. This is selfish and stupid.