Newcomers in the workplace are more easily influenced because they are inexperienced, so they turn their attention to places they shouldn't pay attention to, learn all kinds of complaints, feel refreshed and ignore the essence of things.
Why do you refuse to complain here? Let's look at the following three points:
First of all: complaining equals garbage.
When I met a dirty dump on the road, I knew I had to walk around, but I was afraid of getting my shoes dirty. But why do we meet people who keep complaining and spitting garbage, but grab a drink? What does this rubbish have to do with you? Do you still want to take it home and continue to spit on your family and children?
Unfortunately, most people always judge others more than they know about themselves! Evaluated all the people and complained about everything, but nothing happened to them. Such people not only affect themselves, but also the people around them and the environment.
Second: You only see the surface.
Are you the only one who can see the things and people you complain about? Are so many people who are hundreds and thousands times more capable than you blind?
Obviously not. The question is: Is your judgment standard reasonable? The standard is unreasonable. Who cares? Even if it is reasonable, the world still has its rules. A huge society is composed of a complex ecosystem, and it is not for you or me to make a decision from one or two.
Just as we can often see that some processes of the company are cumbersome and some small details are not perfect. Don't think that the boss doesn't know, but their focus may not be on these small things, but on the more important strategic direction; There may be some things that the boss can't solve, and he needs to do it with the help of external forces at the right time, otherwise there won't be so many arc advisory group.
However, when you are in a new stage, you join in the fun. This is wrong and bad for the company. If this is good, it will be perfect. For such a person, I can only send you one sentence: wait until you become a boss!
Finally: Life is wasting.
Time is the fairest existence in the world. It is selfless, does not hide or flash, and serves the prince and princess 24 hours a day, as well as farmers and beggars 24 hours a day.
It took 48 hours to work, and only 8 hours to work.
Because they spend too much time on ineffective things, thus wasting their lives! And complaining is one of the most ineffective things!
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