But my wife and I both work in the city, and we never met her eldest brother when we got married, so we didn't know her at all, so we didn't know what her eldest brother looked like until two years after marriage.
But recently, one thing has given me a headache. My mother-in-law urged me to introduce someone to my eldest brother.
Because there are many 34-year-old women in my workplace, many of whom are divorced or never married.
Because my wife looks ok, I thought in my mind that if my uncle has good conditions, it is not impossible to introduce him. And many people in our company often go on blind dates and are not afraid to see one more.
As a result, my wife was silent after I told her about it. On the other hand, she advised me not to get excited. I can go home with her during the holiday and get to know her brother better.
So we bought a train ticket and went back as soon as we had a holiday.
On the way, my wife began to introduce me to the basic situation of his eldest brother. Only then did I realize that he was not as simple as I imagined, at least my imagination was wrong from beginning to end.
He was admitted to junior college and got good grades. You know, in his time, it was great to be admitted to a junior college. He was still a rural child.
His parents have good expectations for him, hoping that he can become a talent in the future and have been giving him a lot of help.
For example, when he graduated, his parents-in-law bought him a house in the county. At that time, except for locals, almost no one had the concept of buying a house in the county. In fact, it was because of his own work.
At this rate, his future will not be so great, at least he can get along well.
But who knows, after he worked for a year, he disappeared and left the county. Nobody knows where he went!
At that time, my parents-in-law were anxious. My wife still remembers that the family almost turned over the sky. My mother stayed in Lacrimosa all day while my father was asking about his son's whereabouts. Anyway, this state lasted for several months.
After exhausting all means, I still can't find it. Although my parents-in-law still refused to give up, they were helpless.
Miraculously, a year later, my uncle went home by himself.
It's just that compared with before, I'm embarrassed, my hair is long and messy, and my eyes are as loose as a serious illness.
As soon as he came back, before his parents-in-law could be happy, they began to ask for money, saying that they wanted to do business with that man, and never mentioned where they had been all these years.
No choice, his parents-in-law had to give money, and then he began to live the life of a migratory bird. If he has no money, he will come back for it, and the rich will disappear.
In a flash, his wife graduated from college and got married. He's still like that. He hasn't stopped at all.
However, his parents-in-law are very concerned about his marriage and always think that if his son doesn't stay, the family will be extinct.
But the matchmaker and the girls are not stupid, and no one wants to marry him, so even if the blind date is dozens of times, no one wants to contact him further.
After listening, I regret what I promised my mother-in-law, but after all, it was dictated by my wife, with a certain personal emotion in it. There is no way to verify the authenticity, but you have to check it yourself.
As a result, I went to his house and was very unhappy when I first met my eldest brother. He is covered in smoke, and so is his mouth. Personal image alone turns people off.
Later, I chatted with him for a while and found that he was cheated to the south by his friends. Later, owing a lot of debts, he actually got stuck in it, disdaining all manual labor and unwilling to face the reality at all.
There is no way to save such a person. My mother-in-law asked me how I was doing, and I directly sneered and refused.