Mrding's first wife left four "looks" and died of massive bleeding when she gave birth to four. He changed jobs and came to the island with four samples from Qingdao Gun School.
Mrding is a literate naval officer. He wants to find a literate target who has more languages. It is not excluded that he has the psychology of keeping up with his old comrade-in-arms and old classmate Jiang Defu. This has nothing to do with the overall situation and is beyond reproach.
Mrding first took a fancy to Ge, a schoolgirl teacher on this small island. Just as they were making out quietly, when it was time to talk about marriage and cook uncooked rice, a pot of cold water was poured on them, which made them dizzy and depressed. For their marriage, the organization (in fact, the political commissar Wang) resolutely refused to approve, because Teacher Ge is the daughter of Yuba.
Older people know that Mrding paid special attention to "class composition" when he was in love, and the reactionary "bloodline theory" was once popular. Especially military cadres, who to look for and who to look for must undergo strict examination by the organization. Good family background can be approved; Finding someone with a bad family background, no one can do it and is not recognized.
Then how can Jiang Defu marry Angie, the daughter of a capitalist? Because they are willing to take off their military uniforms and go back to the countryside, what's more, they met Yang, a good principal of an artillery school and his wife's hospital, who understands policies, is not extremely left-wing, and is reasonable. Mrding is different: there are old people in the world and little people in the world. You can't support your family without your military uniform. The political commissar of the "organization" Wang whom I met was also a "Left" person, who gave up. Poor Miss Ge, a pair of lovers, has never been married.
Mrding had to re-examine a nurse in the hospital, but she didn't consider herself a "tigress". She didn't see a word, and several blood stains were dug up on her face, so she was ashamed to meet her elders in Jiangdong. In the end, Mrding and Dehua, who has no culture but always has him in his heart, formed a happy family.
Later, Wang, who had retired, refused to let Mr. Ge, the daughter who married the fisherman, and offered to marry him.
What can I say about this? I can only say: this is a wonderful irony and powerful criticism of the reactionary "bloodline theory."
Subjectively, people who don't want to get married are more than objectively.
It is objective to be afraid to get married. The play says "Mrding's superiors don't agree". At that time, family composition was the primary consideration in marriage, and the most important thing was to be suitable. Mrding is not an old Jiang, so he can't do it without army and membership, and he is still with Anjie. Mrding has the burden and responsibility of Mrding. He has eighty old mothers to support and four sons like wolves. He is not a "bachelor" in Jiang Defu. We understand the difficulties and feel guilty for Mr. Ge. Fortunately, the political commissar Wang appeared, and he brought Mr. Ge the old age he dreamed of.
Not wanting to get married is subjective. Compared with Jiang Defu and Anjie, Lao Jiang prefers Anjie. From the first moment he saw Angie, he decided that she would not marry him, and even went home to farm and practice calligraphy and find medicine for her. On the other hand, Mrding's affection for Mr. Ge is not love, but affection and interest, which is different from Xiue's but similar to Anjie's, and has been the initial standard of mate selection for many years. But this is not love, no emotional foundation, just an impulse to miss. So when you encounter difficulties, all you think of is persistence, unwillingness, escape and turning back.
Therefore, it is not so much that I dare as that I don't want to. For Dehua, I support Mrding!
In The Love of Parents, the people of Mrding compared with Jiang Defu in the aspect of getting a wife.
Jiang Defu was desperate and married Angie.
Mrding is obsessed with the past and afraid to marry Mr. Ge.
First of all, the timing of getting married is different.
When Jiang Defu married Anjie, she was barefoot and not afraid to wear shoes, so she had to go home and farm. I'm throwing caution to the wind. His retreat is to have nothing and go back to his hometown to be a farmer.
Mrding is on an island. He is already a man with parents in the world and four eldest sons in the next, which is too extensive. And he has been warned by the leader Wang Zhenbiao. Therefore, he is faced with not only nothing, but also the inability to support his family and his son.
Secondly, in character and love.
Jiang Defu is still very brave and active. Mrding hesitated. However, the root cause is that Jiang Defu really loves Angie and Mrding. To tell the truth, he really doesn't love Mr. Ge that much. Look at Mrding, hooking up with the dentist for a while and flirting with Mr. Ge for a while. It really shows that he doesn't want Mr. Ge not to get married.
So, he doesn't really want to marry Mr. Ge. Jiang Defu must marry Angie.
So, in the end, after careful consideration, Mrding married Dehua and lived a "warm" life.
Mrding's ex-wife and ex-wife are warm-hearted, outspoken and loving husbands. Mrding is still very lucky.
There are other people's obstacles, but mainly for the future, I dare not marry Mr. Ge who has too high a composition. Later, it was Wang Zhenbiao who took advantage.
Wang Zhenbiao is the political commissar of Songshan Island. Because of preventing him from marrying Ge, Angie and others have quite a problem with him. Later, shortly after the death of the original match, she was going to marry Ge and let Anjie be the matchmaker. In fact, the two of them had already built the plank road and sneaked into the position.
The first one is because of Angie. When Angie went to Songshan Island, it really caused a great sensation. It changed the image of a rural woman with an officer's wife covered with mud, and Anjie could become the focus of the island by picking a water. Like Mrding, Wang Zhenbiao envied Jiang Defu for marrying such a well-educated, beautiful and sensible wife, but it was really terrible to look back at his wife!
Wang Zhenbiao and Jiang Defu walked on the road, first met Anjie, who was a beautiful bearer of water, and then Zhang Guiying, who came back from the sea barefoot, wrapped in a headscarf and carrying a basket, laughing and shouting. In contrast, Wang Zhenbiao lamented why someone else's wife chose a water that looked so good and hummed at her own wife. It can be seen that Wang Zhenbiao is very eager to have an intellectual and beautiful wife.
Ge is the only woman with similar temperament to Angie on Songshan Island. On one occasion, Wang Haiyang said at dinner that Geshamei was an old maid and might marry an ugly thing in the future. At that time, Wang Zhenbiao got angry and slapped his son on the head. It can be seen that Wang Zhenbiao was very protective of Ge from the bottom of his heart.
Therefore, when Mrding applied to marry Ge Xia Mei, she refused. Therefore, although Wang Zhenbiao left Songshan Island for many years, he wanted to marry Ge who was still on Songshan Island after his death.
Mrding and Mr. Ge are predestined friends, right?
The first is the background of the times in which he Ge lived. Mrding was sent to the island because of the school revolution. Only because of Jiang Defu's concern, no one on the island felt embarrassed about Mrding. However, with the success of Jiang Defu, it is obvious that life in Mrding is very difficult. Lack of clothing and food, but also need Dehua to take things from home bedding relief. Not to mention, Mr. Ge is the daughter of fishermen and belongs to the target of being hit. I was able to teach at school at first, but later I was not qualified to teach.
Secondly, the specific living conditions at that time. Can't say that Mrding is not as bold as Jiang Defu. After all, he has four sons, so he should not only consider his own love, but also his son's life. Wang, the political commissar at that time, did not approve him to marry Mr. Ding. If he goes his own way, it is hard to imagine what kind of life their family will live.
It can only be fate.
Mrding and Mr. Ge are in the same boat. They are the same people, the same people, and the same helplessness.
Mrding has always wanted to find a wife who has a common language with herself. Especially after seeing his good friend Jiang Defu married an Jie, a wife with high cultural value, Mrding couldn't wait for a second wife.
Teacher ge can be said to be the most suitable object. Why aren't they together? There are three reasons.
First, the "composition" of Mr. Ge's family.
Teacher Ge is kind-hearted and has ink in his stomach. Such a woman will be pitied by men. Why did she become an older woman?
Just because she was the daughter of a fisherman, at that time, with her family, most men were afraid to marry her, let alone Mrding, the deputy chief of staff?
Teacher Ge was tired by his family and had a hard time on the island. Later, her life got on track, but she was a little old.
She is also a proud person. After making friends with Anjie, she really envied Anjie's petty bourgeoisie life, so she also had a high eye for the object, which led to her height.
Mrding is a good candidate. If Mr. Ge marries him, he will definitely lead a petty bourgeoisie life like Angie's, so Mr. Ge is willing. It's just that her family composition makes Mrding flinch.
Secondly, Mrding's career will be affected.
If he is still single and has no family to take care of, maybe he will risk his career and resolutely walk with Mr. Ge.
Apart from family composition, Mr. Ge is an ideal marriage partner. Lao Ding has been looking for such a confidante all his life, but when he found it, he gave up. Why?
Because of family. Teacher Ge was dragged down by family factors and became an older woman. Lao Dingyi * * * has four sons, all by him and his parents in his hometown, so he gave up Mr. Ge.
If Mrding and Mr. Ge go together, he may lose his job. The whole family is counting on him to support him. He can't sacrifice his family for a woman. The price of marrying Mr. Ge was too high for Mrding to afford, so he gave up his love.
Third, infatuation and morality.
Dehua has always loved Mrding, but he is heartless. Mrding has always disliked Dehua's lack of culture, so Dehua has always had a unrequited love.
Ann Jie Jiang Telford always knew what Dehua was thinking, and they wanted to help, but they couldn't.
Mrding doesn't want to marry Dehua, but he can't live without Dehua. His children also said that Dehua would be their mother, which fully shows that Dehua has a foothold in the Ding family and plays an important role.
Dehua's kindness to Mrding, like that quiet spring rain, accumulated over time and left its mark on Mrding's heart bit by bit. At first, he didn't care. Later, Mrding noticed the kindness of Dehua.
Finally, Mrding put down his insistence and married Dehua to go home with a happy ending.
Because the person Lao Ding really has a crush on is Anjie. Before, because of Wang Xiue, I was only thinking about this matter. Later, Wang Xiue died, and Mrding planned to find someone according to Anji's standards. So Angie's good friend Miss Ge fell in love with her at first sight. However, Teacher Ge is just a beautiful girl who grew up in a fishing village. In that special environment, she is passive and has a strong sense of inferiority, and her temperament and knowledge are not as good as that of Teacher An. Although she is a scholar, she is more than a scholar.
However, without Wang's objection, the father of four sons could have married Mr. Ge, who had never been married. On the one hand, he was pressured by Wang, on the other hand, he never loved Mr. Ge like Ai Anjie (including later Wu), so he chose to give up under a little external pressure.
Mrding's choice of virtue without culture should be his deliberate decision. In a word, since he can't find his love, find someone who loves him! Another reason is that Dehua is the sister of Commander Jiang, and being close to the Chiang family is good for him and his sons.
I'm afraid it will affect his future, because Mr. Ge is the daughter of Yu Ba.
Unlike Jiang Defu, they were both subjected to political censorship when they got married. They either get married and go home to farm, or stay in the army for promotion. Jiang Defu chose to get married and go home to farm, because he was neither young nor young, so he was not afraid to wear shoes barefoot. Of course, he was lucky not to be expelled from the army, but he had four children in Mrding. If you are fired for getting married, who will bear it? Mrding dare not gamble. If he dares to gamble, it also proves that he is too selfish. He ignores his parents and children for his marriage, so he weighs the pros and cons and decides not to marry Mr. Ge.
I think I dare not marry Mr. Ge, the daughter of an educated fisherman, because I have a "criminal record" with a wrong life style. Mrding was transferred from Qingdao Artillery School to the island garrison, but he was not promoted. He was still a lieutenant colonel and a regimental cadre. It must have been sent there. At that time, officers made mistakes in the army. As long as it is political or economic, almost without exception, they will take off their military uniforms and move to other places. It's just a matter of life style. As long as it doesn't have a big impact, it's usually transferred from different places and won't jump ship. Perhaps this is the case in Mrding. In addition, in the artillery school, Mrding's former sister-in-law Xiue repeatedly criticized her husband as a playboy, which was a hint to the audience that Mrding was likely to fall down in her lifestyle. Because of this, on the issue of marrying Mr. Ge, he chickened out and gave up his dream of finding a literate wife to avoid stumbling on personal issues again.