Male, 23 years old, from Wuxi, Jiangsu Province, because he went to college in other places, his girlfriend is from Tianshui, Gansu Province, and he has two younger brothers. He is poor there.

With all due respect, these problems should be considered, but you should prioritize. According to your sister, who can guarantee smooth sailing in the future? Will someone have an accident and life will be impossible? If your girlfriend is nice and loves you very much, and you love her very much, nothing else matters. Besides, if you work hard and your daughter-in-law is virtuous, life will certainly not be too bad. Of course, if you think your sister's problems should also be considered, in case her parents have physical problems, you must go to see her and spend money to see a doctor. This is also a problem. So I suggest you calm your head, clear your mind, don't complicate the problem, make your own decision, and don't regret it. . . The above are personal opinions and are for reference only.