One day, one of her cousins came back from the county seat to find Li Yaomei.
Li Yaomei knows this cousin. She is vigorous and capable. She is called a strong woman and lives in the county. The husband is a policeman, and a daughter is in the third grade of primary school. She is very busy at work. If there is no urgent matter, she will not go back to her hometown easily. Since I came to see her, I must have something important to discuss.
Li Yaomei looked at her cousin's smiling face and said bluntly, "Nothing to go to Sanbaotang. If my cousin wants to see me, please tell me directly. "
He Guihua, who was called cousin by Li Yaomei, sat down and said bluntly, "You have been helping your parents grow crops at home since you graduated from junior high school. This is not a long-term solution. Have you ever thought about changing the environment or finding something to do? "
Li Yaomei smiled and said, "Yes, but I haven't found the right one yet. Did my cousin help me find the right one? " Li Yaomei said firmly with a smile.
"Tell me, do you want to be a nanny?" Cousin He Guihua looked at his cousin's big eyes and said bluntly.
"Don't tell me, I really haven't considered this waiter. Is it to help people with children? " Li Yaomei questioned.
"No, it is to take care of the elderly who are paralyzed in bed." Cousin answered with a voice.
"Taking care of the elderly and taking care of the elderly who are paralyzed in bed should be no problem for you, right?" Cousin He Guihua briefly explained the words.
"I watched you grow up. You have been kind-hearted, intelligent and studious since childhood. I think you will do well in taking care of the elderly. " Cousin said confidently.
Li Yaomei hesitated, not knowing how to answer. But she finally nodded and smiled in front of her cousin. She smiled so sunny, so cute and so confident.
The old man paralyzed in bed needs someone to take care of him. Since my cousin said so, what reason do I have to refuse? Li Yaomei thought silently in her mind.
Next, cousin He Guihua introduced the details and requirements of the householder to cousin Li Yaomei.
The head of the household is surnamed Zheng, and everyone habitually calls him Comrade Zheng. Comrade Zheng is now working in the county. My home is in the provincial capital. There is an old mother in her seventies in the world, a son in primary school, and her wife is a surgeon in the affiliated hospital of Provincial Medical University. Some time ago, Comrade Zheng's old mother was paralyzed in bed because of a sudden cerebral hemorrhage, and now she urgently needs a nanny to take care of the elderly at home.
Since Comrade Zheng ran away from home and left the provincial capital to work in the county, he has no time to take care of his family, and now he has no time to take care of his old mother who is paralyzed in bed. So I discussed with my wife and decided to find a nanny to take care of my mother at home.
When Comrade Zheng knew about the nanny, he naturally thought of his cousin Li Yaomei.
Li Yaomei is literate and smart. The key is that her cousin is kind-hearted, strong-minded and can see things. After careful consideration, my cousin He Guihua thinks my cousin is the most suitable candidate. So she took the initiative to recommend to Comrade Zheng. So there is today's action plan.
Three days later, Li Yaomei and the Zheng family came to the provincial capital. Dr Cui has arranged a single room for her in advance and told her that her task is to take good care of Aunt Zheng. Li Yaomei put forward her own ideas in front of Dr. Cui and Comrade Zheng. She said: "If Aunt Zheng doesn't dislike herself, she is willing to share a room with Aunt Zheng for the convenience of care. In this way, I can keep abreast of Aunt Zheng's situation. "
In this way, Li Yaomei lived in the Zheng family. 24 hours a day, they all stay with Aunt Zheng, supervise and take care of Aunt Zheng, and take care of Aunt Zheng's joys and sorrows, diet and daily life at any time. In the Zheng family, I took care of Aunt Zheng and didn't dare to relax for a moment.
According to Dr. Cui's instructions, three meals a day, mainly light diet, eat less and eat more meals. Take medicine on time every day, scrub the body for the elderly once a day, massage the elderly once a day, help the elderly to sit in a wheelchair every day and walk around the hospital for about two hours.
Li Yaomei has never served the elderly since she was a child, especially those who are paralyzed in bed. Being a nanny is easier said than done, and the taste is really unspeakable.
However, she didn't dislike Aunt Zheng, let alone complain. Since I promised my cousin, I have to fulfill the responsibility of this nanny. With her intelligence, self-confidence, enthusiasm and patience, she quickly became familiar with this family and quickly entered the role of caring for the elderly.
Before going to bed every night, Li Yaomei will personally wash her face and scrub her body from head to toe. Aunt Zheng is a northerner and a member of the National People's Congress. Li Yaomei has a hard time turning over and wiping her back every day. But Li Yaomei never gave up. She always smiles and encourages Aunt Zheng to cooperate with her designated direction. Once, twice, three times, unconsciously, Aunt Zheng turned against Yao-mei Li, which undoubtedly helped Yao-mei Li a lot, saved her a lot of time, and Aunt Zheng was in a good mood herself.
After washing my body, I will help Aunt Zheng change her underwear and put on clean underwear again. Finally, according to Dr. Cui's request, I gave Aunt A Zheng a massage. When I first learned massage from Dr. Cui, I was a little familiar with it. After several times, Dr. Cui smiled and said, "Li Yaomei can be called a family masseur." Whenever Li Yaomei massages Aunt Zheng, she often presses it, and Aunt Zheng falls asleep.
At this time, Li Yaomei will tuck in the quilt for Zheng Daniang, pack up the things beside the bed, and go to the bathroom to clean the changed clothes and towels. After drying, wash and sleep.
Looking at Aunt Zheng's serene face across the bed, Li Yaomei will close her eyes and go to sleep peacefully.
In the middle of the night, as long as my aunt makes a tiny move, Li Yaomei will wake up immediately. Whenever Li Yaomei helps Aunt Zheng defecate, she will take the used bedpan to the bathroom in time, clean it and put it back under the bed for later use.
In order not to affect the family's meal time, she gets up early every day to wash and make breakfast for her family in advance. Then wait on the elderly to relieve themselves, brush their teeth, wash their faces and comb their hair for breakfast. After Dr. Cui and her son went out to work and go to school, she quickly cleaned the dishes and chopsticks, cleaned the kitchen and took the garbage in the trash can to the door. And open all the windows in the house for ventilation. Then sweep the floor, tidy the room and put things back.
Dr Cui has said many times that she is only responsible for taking care of Aunt Zheng, but Li Yaomei is a restless person. She likes doing things and doing things well.
After doing these things, she lifted Aunt Zheng from the bed, slowly moved to the wheelchair, helped her put on her shoes, brought a cup of water, and then pushed Aunt Zheng in the wheelchair outside to bask in the sun and breathe fresh air.
This time of day is the happiest and most enjoyable time for Zheng Daniang. Outside, you can watch colorful flowers and plants, breathe fresh air, bask in the sun, say hello to your old neighbors and chat.
Mood is very important for the recovery of patients.
As the days passed, Aunt Zheng's health was recovering day by day. From lying in bed, unable to move, to turning over when Li Yaomei scrubbed his body, to moving from bed to sitting in a wheelchair with Li Yaomei, and then slowly leaving the wheelchair with Li Yaomei and walking on the flat ground.
Aunt Zheng's series of changes surprised Li Yaomei, and her sense of accomplishment came to life. It turns out that while helping others, I can get so much happiness and happiness from it. People can live like this. It's good to live like this!
One day, Dr. Cui made a special examination for her mother-in-law and surprised her mother-in-law. Her mother-in-law recovered quickly, which she never expected.
Of course, these are inseparable from the companionship, care and warmth of family members, as well as Li Yaomei's meticulous care and her persistence and patience.
What impressed me most was that Li Yaomei had just arrived. On one occasion, Aunt Zheng was so sad that she didn't eat or drink. The reason is because my body has dragged down everyone, so I want to end my life on a hunger strike. No matter how the family tried to persuade them, it didn't help in the end.
Just when the family didn't know what to do, Li Yaomei approached Aunt Zheng's ear and said, "Aunt, it's too lonely for you to walk alone. I will stay with you and have a companion along the way. "
Zheng Daniang leaned over and looked serious. She faced Li Yaomei and said, "Are you kidding? You are still young. How can you treat life like a joke? " Aunt Zheng then ignored Li Yaomei.
"I'm not kidding. If you leave, I won't be a nanny. If I can't be a nanny, I have no income. If I have no income, I still have nothing to look forward to. In that case, I might as well go with you. Help me! " Li Yaomei did as she said, and the plan really worked. Aunt Zheng finally gave up the idea of suicide.
After a long time, Aunt Zheng gradually loved Li Yaomei as her daughter. And since Li Yaomei came to this home and came to Aunt Zheng, she just earnestly performed the duties of a nanny. As she said, "I just did what I had to do, but I didn't know that I finally got aunt Zheng's trust, care and support, which she never thought before she came to be a nanny."
One day, Aunt Zheng said in front of her son and daughter-in-law, "I accept Li Yaomei. From now on, she is my goddaughter, she is their sister and she is my grandson's aunt. From now on, we are a family. "
In this way, Li Yaomei took care of Aunt Zheng with a kind filial piety, and Aunt Zheng also loved Li Yaomei with loving mother's love.
Three years later, when Li Yaomei's cousin saw her again, she said with emotion, "I didn't expect you, an unknown little babysitter, to do so well." The patient who is paralyzed in bed can stand and walk now. You are really not simple. That's great. You are the pride and pride of our women. I heard that there are many people waiting in line for you now! Tell cousin, what are your plans next? "
Without thinking, Li Yaomei said, "I'm going to go home and open a shop first. When the conditions are ripe, I will do what I want to do next. "
No one expected that Li Yaomei, who used to be a nanny, later became the dean of a nursing home. Of course, these are all stories.