You don't have to ask, she must have broken up with her boyfriend, or her boyfriend suddenly left.
As for what she said about boys breaking up without saying hello, that's not true. Everyone's departure has been planned for a long time, and it will not be a sudden decision.
In love, "breakup" has always been a potential risk. In fact, many times, breaking up doesn't happen suddenly. Until then, there must be many clues.
Below, I will share with you the top ten signs before a man breaks up:
They will suddenly become a little picky and like to find fault with you. I used to think you looked good at everything, but now I don't like you anywhere. Then I took the opportunity to quarrel with you, and then I started cold violence.
At this time, you will still feel that you are wrong. When you want to communicate with him, he is still indifferent and unwilling to talk to you. Even if you say a few more words, he will say, "Are you bored? You've been saying that shit all day. "
Then I won't return your messages. I will argue with you when I am on the phone because of busy work and so on. Hang up. You care about him, but he ignores him Anyway, it is all kinds of impatience, as if you have done something wrong, which is intolerable in his eyes.
Moreover, after the problems appeared, people became more and more accustomed to cold treatment. Then you begin to understand that it's not how bad you are, but that he doesn't love you.
Because you have seen what he looks like when he loves you, and you have seen what he looks like when he doesn't love you.
Once, making you happy was his specialty. When you are in a bad mood, criticized by the leader, wronged and need comfort. He will always be by your side, trying to make you laugh. I'm afraid you're depressed.
Now, even if you cry, he doesn't care.
At this time, he can't wait for you to say, "You don't care about me, break up."
Then you can play a victim of "lovelorn" to a great extent.
The old mantra is "You are the most beautiful, you are the most lovely, and you are always the best in my heart."
But now, I always dislike that your legs are not long enough, your face is not white enough, and your waist is not thin enough. When you walk on the road, you will evaluate other girls with great fanfare:
"Look at people's figure, how can they be so fat";
"Look at how clean and natural the makeup is, and then look at yours";
"People's clothes are really beautiful, look at what you are wearing";
This relationship makes you less confident and hate yourself more and more. In fact, you may be excellent, but in his eyes, you are no longer unique.
When you mentioned your business to him, he didn't show interest, but responded coldly.
I read a reader's message, and he said, "I said I wanted to go to Yunnan before, but because both of them are very busy, I have no time." At that time, my boyfriend said that he also wanted to go to Yunnan, wanted to go with me, and described a lot of beautiful scenery in Yunnan. After the outbreak, I brought it up again. As a result, my boyfriend said, if you want to leave, I will be free. "
Did you get a look at him? The heart signal changed. I always say "anything, no matter what", but I'm already absent-minded
Even if you just coughed, he would drag you to the hospital to register. Prepare brown sugar ginger tea half a month before the physiological period.
Now, he seems too lazy to say "drink more hot water". Even if you say you are uncomfortable, he will only feel normal, girls.
There are always a few days of discomfort every month. Sometimes, you don't need to explain it in words. When these things happen, it shows that the crisis of breaking up is approaching.
Always busy, always have endless meetings, always have endless classes. These seem to have become "standard".
They were not busy before, but now they always seem so busy. Your message is not answered in time, your phone is not answered, and you can't go on an appointment.
The date I promised you before is always broken, and the reason is always "I am busy recently and have time." It used to be seconds when chatting. Now it may not even be reincarnation. Always disappear when chatting.
The most common chat record in mobile phone is that you talk a lot, but you can't wait for his reply for a long time. Even if you receive a reply, it is just a simple sentence: hmm.
You haven't been out together for a long time. During the short holiday, you are both busy with your own affairs. Even if you have made a travel plan, he will say that you just have friends and can't accompany you.
Obviously, we are lovers, but we feel that there is less and less intersection between you. If a person is unwilling to give you time, it means that you are not that important.
When boys want to break up, they will definitely discuss their ideas with their close friends.
So when his friends are not as enthusiastic about you as before, for example, they used to play games with you, but now they don't play with you. They are friendly but have a sense of distance, so maybe your boyfriend has told them that he is going to break up.
In the past, whenever and wherever, I would reply to your message in time and share everything in my life with you.
But once I want to break up with you, I will run away from you because he is afraid to face you. After all, it was he who broke up first. He still felt a little guilty about you, but he didn't dare to express it and had to choose to escape.
I don't return your message, I don't tell you where I went, I don't always accompany you, which makes you slowly disappointed with him, and finally makes you break up on your own initiative.
Some people are sometimes more rational than emotional in front of feelings. When they have the idea of breaking up with you, they won't say so, but they will start to create or even cause conflicts that can break up invisibly, and you haven't noticed it yet. When the other party breaks up, you don't know what the problem is.
Many people may find this a bit strange. Don't fewer quarrels mean more and more love? In fact, the most feared thing in feelings is not quarreling, but being too lazy to quarrel.
When you are dissatisfied with him and want to quarrel with him, if he doesn't even give you a chance to stay and quarrel with you, it proves that he doesn't care what you think and is not nervous about your relations.
Some people say that the person who really loves you is the one who is willing to stay and quarrel with you. Think about it.
Taking the initiative to find you can be understood as that he is thinking of you. Every time I miss you, I will take the initiative to find you.
But now unless you take the initiative to find him, he won't take the initiative to send messages and call.
At this time, he no longer misses you. You know, there is no place for you in his heart.
Finally, you become anxious and impatient while waiting for his information until you can't stand it.
Take the initiative to find the past again and again, and then continue to wait for his reply, continue to be anxious, impatient, endless, until we break up.
He used to hold your hand tightly when you went out, and you would always hug each other.
I hold you in my arms when I sleep at night, and sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night and make out with you. Now he only has a quilt in his arms. He can either leave a shadow for you or tell you that he is tired and needs a good rest.
Some silly girls have been rationalizing their boyfriends' behavior in their hearts, thinking that they are not in love, are they too sensitive, maybe their boyfriends are in a bad mood recently, and they will be fine after a while. However, the expectation of the lover again and again, in exchange for the disappointment of love again and again.
In fact, many times, in the face of a dying relationship, a person who has decided to break up, you may not need any signs, you will definitely feel it.
So when you realize that he is not the same as before, you should speak your mind frankly and find effective communication ways to resolve the possible problems between you, instead of waiting until it is beyond repair.
On the contrary, if he really doesn't deserve it, then all we can do is put it down and start over.
I'm Chen Yu, an emotional counselor, and I know more than you think. If you are emotionally confused, you can ask for a private letter or comment.