1, because going to court is a kind of harm to the family.
Law can clarify economic disputes, but it can't clarify family demands. Brother sued your property, which means there must be an economic dispute. No matter how big the contradiction is, don't go to court for the sake of the family.
At present, there are many mediation institutions in society: street offices, villagers' neighborhood committees, township government mediation committees, police stations and so on. Relatives can try to communicate with each other, put themselves in their shoes and take a step back to reach an agreement instead of resorting to the law immediately. Such behavior is also a kind of injury to family, and they will not believe in family in the future.
2, because the lawsuit won, but lost home.
Affection is the cornerstone of maintaining the operation of a family. Emotion depends on empathy and mutual understanding. Only by empathizing, caring for each other, understanding more, and caring less, will the temperature of affection not drop. Now it has risen to the point of court ruling, treating it as an enemy and rubbing its hands. Because of the dispute of interests and the contradiction of life, family ties naturally break down. There are winners and losers, but family ties are really priceless. No matter who wins or loses this lawsuit, the only thing that will be lost in the end will be family ties.
3, because the family can't beat the material.
Some people will say: this thing can be eaten as a meal, this thing is used to endure hardships, and it is rare for rich people. The poor talk about family, and the rich talk about law. No rich people divide the inheritance, and some don't make trouble, don't make trouble, and don't go to court. Every family dispute is a mirror, and the law can only solve the problem of interests, but it can't make people feel kinship.
In fact, my brother has ignored his family because of the real estate lawsuit. In his mind, the interests of real estate are the most important. Instead of blaming each other and feeling sorry for the loss of family, it is better to look at the nature of family. Family ties everywhere must be carefully maintained. The person who doesn't want to maintain is just a cold-blooded relative, and there is no affection at all. There is really no need to believe in family ties.