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While watching TV at home, my friend Xiao Chen called. After that, Liang wants to divorce her.
I have been married to Liang for eight years, and their son is four and a half years old this year. What great event can make them divorce?
By asking, it turns out that they went back to Chen Xiao's home for the New Year this year. Who would have thought that when we arrived, we couldn't leave, blocking roads everywhere. With three more people, family expenses are getting tighter and tighter. When Xiao Chen saw it, he felt that he had not supported his family for a long time. He is eating and living at his parents' house now, and he is very sorry. He secretly gave his mother a red envelope of 20 thousand yuan.
When I was eating at noon, I accidentally told the horse that it was still a child's heart, otherwise it would be really difficult. Lao Liang didn't understand at first, so he asked, Mom, what are you talking about? Ma said that all the money in the family is regularly deposited in the bank. If it weren't for the red envelope you gave us, we would probably be worried about buying food. Old beam pale, staring at Xiao Chen.
After dinner, Lao Liang asked Chen Xiaohao. After learning that she gave her mother-in-law 20 thousand at once, Lao Liang was very angry and asked Chen Xiao to hand over her financial power, otherwise she would divorce.
At first, Xiao Chen was a little indefensible. When he heard Lao Liang say that he wanted a divorce, he didn't give anything to his family after so many years of marriage. Just this once, why not?
In the long run, the more noisy the two became, the more fierce they finally alarmed their mother-in-law. Mother-in-law said after learning what happened, we don't want your money, just live our own life and return the red envelope to you.
Xiao Chen was angry, but the more he thought about it, the more he felt wronged. He felt that he had married the wrong man and that nothing could help him. He was really blind at first.
I asked, why not discuss it with Liang first? Xiao Chen said he was not afraid to disagree. If he doesn't agree, you make your own decisions? Xiao Chen suddenly faltered, arguing that he hadn't given money for so many years, and it was time to give money.
Whether or not to give it is one thing, and how to give it is another. Does Lao Liang usually discuss with you? Did he make his own decision when you bought a house and a car? Xiao Chen was discouraged and said no, I was funny. Then why do you have to make your own decision and think he will disagree?
2.
When two people live, there must be business and quantity.
Wen Wen and her fiance are getting married. They are discussing buying a house. Together, they will decorate their small home beautifully and warmly. When you are free, you will make an appointment to look at the house together, check the apartment type and transportation, and also study the house price and mortgage. When they see their favorite decoration style or furniture, they will also take photos and discuss them together.
Wen Wen said that being with her fiance is particularly practical. Everything is negotiated by two people, and the future of * * * is also attended by two people, and the differences will be resolved soon. "I'm sure this is the day I want," she said.
3.
Xiaofeng also plans to further develop with his girlfriend Lily and get married as soon as possible.
When I went to Lily's house to play, I heard that Xiaofeng was a high school teacher. Uncle Lily said that the child is going to high school soon, and you are a teacher. Please help me review my lessons. Lily immediately agreed to come down.
Xiaofeng told Lily that she teaches in a private school, and the tuition is calculated by the hour, not her brother. It is better to charge some fees appropriately. Lily got angry when she heard this, and said, Did you fall into the eyes of money? You are all related. What's wrong with asking for help?
After a quarrel, Xiaofeng calmed down and began to think about whether she and Lily were suitable.
If your partner makes decisions for himself in private, you will make a scene if you are not satisfied. Such a marriage is not respected, is it necessary to start?
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Small things you decide, big things we discuss, two people's future, of course, also want two people to plan * * * together.
Too many couples decide for themselves what they should discuss. It was fine, but it ended in discord.
Some people, worried that the other party won't agree, act after the action. When the other party finds out, things have already landed and often end in a big fight.
Mr. Wang once lent 5 thousand to a friend without telling me. He said he was worried that I wouldn't agree to borrow it, so he made a private decision. That friend once lent us a sum of money that should have been paid back long ago.
I was angry, too. After the anger subsided, we had a good talk. I'm not angry that he lent money to his friends, but he didn't discuss it with me.
We are a family, and making decisions that are detrimental to the interests of our family makes me feel like an outsider. Since it is a family matter, it must be solved by the family. Instead of you finishing it? Have you noticed? Let me know.
Participation is an important part of a family.
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After the chat, Kerwin Chen felt that he had done something wrong and apologized to Lao Liang. Lao Liang also said that he was very angry and said something he shouldn't have said. I hope Xiao Chen can forgive himself.
Say it and you'll be relieved. Originally, a small incident almost broke up the marriage, and both of them were a little scared and felt too impulsive.
A good marriage needs two people? Discuss? Come, understand each other, negotiate with each other, and finally make a decision that both people agree with.
In order to give his girlfriend a surprise, Zhang Hao, a science and engineering man, secretly bought a fine decoration. I didn't expect her girlfriend to be very angry because she hasn't had time to talk about various decoration styles. Zhang Hao? Arbitrary? , surprise, turned into a fright.
Things at home, two people discuss. Only when there is business and quantity can there be a bright future. What did you say?/Sorry?