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Mei Zi and Xiaogang have always been model couples in the eyes of friends. After two years of love, they entered the marriage hall. Family conditions and looks are particularly well matched. They are a couple, so to speak. After marriage, because Mei Zi is more capable, the final family structure is that the woman is outside the house and the man is inside. Mei Zi has also become an independent strong woman envied by many friends, and Xiaogang is responsible for all chores at home.
However, this seemingly harmonious and perfect family life hides a lot of thunder. When Mei Zi came home from hard work during the day, she was still faced with a mess and her husband who was playing games. This kind of life, Mei Zi can't breathe, and when she dreams at night, she is full of regrets.
In fact, at the beginning, it was not like this. It's all because Mei Zi's husband failed in business and lost all his family savings. He lost money again and again, was heavily in debt, and her husband was devastated. In desperation, Mei Zi can only choose to be strong, work hard, and pay off her home mortgage and car loan and living expenses with her own salary in Weibo. She paid all the expenses herself. Get rid of these miscellaneous things, and there is nothing left. Plum can only scrimp and save as much as possible. In summer, even if she bought a better sunscreen, she was reluctant to spend that 200 yuan more.
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Last week, Mei Zi was ill in hospital and had to rest for two months after discharge. She can't work, and her family has no financial resources. In order to make a living, Mei Zi asked her husband to find ways to make money. It's time to cheer up. She can't fool around like this anymore. By the way, it's not easy for her to pay for her family for so many years. Although she is only a woman and doesn't ask for anything in return, she is a man and should have her own responsibilities. Originally, this is a very normal thing. As a result, Xiaogang only replied with one word: get out.
At that moment, Mei Zi had mixed feelings and couldn't tell what kind of emotions he was, such as sadness, anger, injustice, etc., which drove Mei Zi to ask why. She really left, even without children. At the age of 35, he has paid his husband's debts for 9 years, and the repayment has reached 350,000. Now that he has just been discharged from the hospital, he needs his husband to be responsible, but his husband has let himself go.
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For so many years, for the sake of children, she thought that children were still young, and if divorced, it would definitely have a major impact on children. So, she put up with it again and gave everything, hoping that even if it was just to maintain the surface, the family could continue. However, this man turned against her and was ruthless. Before she was discharged from the hospital after surgery, she began to be a villain, and even didn't want to do anything and didn't want to work hard. In this case, Mei thought that maybe,
When Mei Zi asked for a divorce, Xiao Gang casually agreed. After the divorce, Mei Zi rented a room by herself. Because there was no messy living expenses before, she gradually had some savings in her hand, but she was a little more relaxed and happy than before. Xiao Gang, on the other hand, can't live on his own because he lost his plum blossom and has no financial resources. However, it is useless to regret at this time.
【 Conclusion 】 Marriage is a bond that binds two people together. This is just the beginning. Only by giving to each other can the marriage last. Married life is not a math problem. It is meaningless to care who pays more and who pays less, and it will never be clear. However, there should still be general equality in giving. Plum gives everything, and one person assumes the responsibility of supporting the family. On the surface, it seems to be just for the sake of small, but because Xiaogang didn't realize that this kind of behavior is rare, he just shrugged it off and didn't care about Plum's contribution at all, because he didn't pay, so he didn't know how tired he was. However, Mei Zi made great efforts, and finally she got neither understanding nor forgiveness, but a "roll" that pushed her away. A couple who don't understand each other and are unwilling to make changes for each other can't have a long-term marriage. In this relationship, the person who plays the role of giving will also leave because of complete disappointment.