As soon as my good friend Tong Tong graduated, his parents arranged a blind date. Another family was introduced by a friend of Tong Tong's mother. The man graduated from a famous university, worked in a public institution and was famous for his filial piety.
Without mutual understanding, there is only one family condition, and the other party is a very filial person. Tong Tong started her marriage life under the compulsory arrangement of her parents. However, less than half a year after marriage, Tong Tong was like a different person, complaining to me that she wanted a divorce.
It turns out that Tong Tong's husband is a real "baby boy", and the so-called filial piety of his husband only listens to his mother unconditionally. Before getting married, she never thought about how sad her marriage was and how terrible it was to marry a Mambo.
On the first morning after marriage, Tong Tong wanted to dress her husband, but his husband said, "Have you asked my mother? My mother matched all my clothes. Don't touch my clothes again. " Hearing the noise in the wedding room, her mother-in-law immediately came over and saw the scene in front of her, but her mouth rose, which made Tong Tong very embarrassed.
Married life is more like a nightmare. In front of her mother-in-law and the whole family, Tong Tong felt transparent and had no privacy at all. Sometimes at night, my mother-in-law doesn't even knock on the door, just come in.
Tong Tong expressed her dissatisfaction with her husband, but he said she was melodramatic and didn't like her mother-in-law. Said his mother is not an outsider, but of course his mother has the right to go in and out of his bedroom.
Several times, Tong Tong's husband was taking a bath and called his mother in to help him rub his back. The family ate at the dinner table, and the mother and son took food from each other. The son poured what he couldn't eat directly to his mother, regardless of Tong Tong's feelings, and he felt like an outsider.
To Tong Tong's annoyance, her husband is as docile as a child in front of her mother-in-law, and she is particularly grumpy in front of her mother-in-law. Plus, her mother-in-law doesn't like herself everywhere, so Tong Tong feels a little schizophrenic recently.
Last time I went shopping, Tong Tong bought two clothes. When I came home, she was scolded by her mother-in-law, thinking that she had squandered their money and asked Tong Tong to return it. Tong Tong was particularly wronged. She spends her own money. Why can't she buy herself a dress?
Tong Tong waited for her husband to come back and wanted to complain to him, but she got scolded by him and said, What the fuck? If you ever contradict his mother again. Then he slammed the door and went straight to his fucking room.
I've only been married for six months. Don't say Tong Tong can't stand it. No one else can stand it. I just want to say that I cherish my marriage and stay away from my mother.