After living together for two months, a man asked his girlfriend to pay the rent. Can such a man still have it?

Once men and women fall in love, their feelings tend to heat up quickly, so they will fall in love in waves and have a strong desire to stay with each other all the time.

Nowadays, people's minds are more and more open, and couples are no longer as conservative as before and are no longer bound by many traditional concepts. Therefore, driven by strong love, choosing cohabitation has become a natural choice for many couples.

In my opinion, cohabitation is a necessary transition from love to marriage.

Couples choose to live together after their feelings have developed to a certain stage. On the one hand, it can promote the emotional development of two people, on the other hand, it can also see the problems between them. If you blindly enter marriage directly from love, then when two people have insoluble contradictions, it is very likely that both of them will be difficult to be happy under the bondage of marriage.

Cohabitation is a way to help us find problems in time, but it is not bound by marriage.

I have a female friend, Nannan, who found something she couldn't stand after living together and decided to break up.

The love between Nannan and her boyfriend has not had so many twists and turns. They met at a friend's party, then gradually developed feelings and finally came together.

After two people confirmed their love relationship, Nan Nan devoted herself wholeheartedly to this relationship. The relationship between the two people is getting closer and closer, and the feelings are getting better and better.

This man is very kind to Nannan and takes care of him every day. Nannan was very satisfied. He thinks this is a good man and he is lucky to meet him.

But this man doesn't have so much romantic feelings, unlike some men who send flowers and gifts from time to time. In this regard, Nannan actually doesn't care. She thinks the other person may be just a little dull, so she doesn't know how to perform.

When two people go out together at ordinary times, there are also expenses for giving and receiving. Whether it's eating, watching movies or drinking coffee, you pay the bill and I pay the bill. Nannan never cares about money. Unlike some girls, she thinks that men should spend money when they fall in love.

They have been in love for less than half a year, and her boyfriend tentatively asked Nannan if she could move in with him, stressing that it would save a sum of money. At that time, Nannan just thought that this was an excuse for her boyfriend's embarrassment, but Nannan herself was very much looking forward to two people being together every day, so she accepted it gladly.

In this way, after Nannan packed her things, she moved to the house rented by her boyfriend with joy. At the beginning of their cohabitation, they had a very happy time. Nannan imagines herself as a wife, buying food and cooking all day and buying all kinds of things to decorate their space.

However, the two have just lived together for about two months. Suddenly one day, her boyfriend told Nannan that he had paid the rent for this period of cohabitation. I hope that from next month, two people will rotate and one person will pay for one month. After all, cohabitation is a matter for two people.

Nannan suddenly stood there when I heard that. She never thought about this problem, and she never thought that the other party was so nice. At that moment, Nannan's heart suddenly cooled. She felt that the man in front of her was strange, as if she suddenly didn't know him.

For Nannan, she doesn't care about money. Although their income is not high, neither of them is so careful. Since living together, she has spent far more money on furniture and daily necessities than rent.

The more Nannan thinks about it, the angrier she gets, and the more she realizes the true face of her boyfriend. Thinking of her boyfriend's past performance, she suddenly felt that she was wrong in love, so she broke up with each other directly on the spot. Although her boyfriend tried his best to save her, Nannan still didn't change his decision.

At the moment when Nannan moved away, Nannan said to the man, I didn't live with you because I have no money, let alone save money. I can afford the money, but I despise you. You don't look like a man at all, and you don't have the responsibility of a man.

The above is the story of Nan Nan's experience. She said she didn't regret this cohabitation. On the contrary, she was glad that she didn't find this man's shrewdness until she got married.

Some people may say that Nan Nan made a mountain out of a molehill, and some even say that Nan Nan violated the equality between men and women, but I support Nan Nan's decision. There is a great difference between two people's attitudes towards money, and sooner or later there will be contradictions. The so-called equality between men and women does not mean that men can lack responsibility.

A good man should have enough sense of responsibility, be able to stand up and shelter from the wind and rain for women, become the dependence of women's body and mind, and strive to create a better life for women. If a man holds the banner of equality between men and women but loses these masculine qualities as a man, it is extremely sad.

Good cohabitation In my opinion, if two people don't have big economic problems, men should take the initiative to bear the rent, which is a preview of the responsibilities they will shoulder when they become husbands in the future, while women should also take the initiative to share the expenses of life and not rely entirely on men. Such cohabitation is positive and will pave the way for future marriage.