Unlike most boys, their hobbies are all on their faces: staring at you and pursuing you; It's good for you and loyal.
Their likes are sometimes like lightning, bright and powerful, hitting the floor;
Sometimes it is like a gurgling stream, looming and silent.
But in either case, there is an obvious feature-they will give up sooner or later, they just can't treat you equally with others.
Here, I divide the performance of girls' "liking" into two categories:
1. Behind-the-scenes performance: refers to the performance that she made out of their communication range because she liked you.
Second, interactive performance: refers to the performance she made to you during the interaction between the two parties.
To sum up, they like a boy's typical performance is as follows:
First, behind the performance:
I like asking for your information.
Seemingly casual, in fact, it always seems to inadvertently turn the topic to you, trying to get your information from others.
This is the easiest way for them to get to know you without knowing you.
I like to talk about you with others.
This is an unconscious behavior, because their excitement lies in you, so they are particularly willing to talk about you with others.
Your personality, your family, what you have done, what do you mean by a sentence, the motive behind an action ... to people who don't know, it's like a big gossip party, as if they were possessed.
"This is obviously a boring topic. Why is she so interested? "
Jealous, even though she knows it's not worth it.
It is difficult for a girl who really likes you to be reasonable and give in on the matter of "possessiveness".
Sometimes you even think, "How can she be jealous of cats and dogs? How can you be jealous of this game? How can I be jealous because of my good friends? "
In fact, they don't know that some things should not be jealous, which can't be justified in logic and behavior-but don't underestimate the possessiveness of girls. When they want to be the most important person in your life, they will be jealous of any obstacles.
Try to find out your motivation.
They will attach great importance to all the information you send: a photo, a complaint, an unclear sentence; When they see it, they will stop seriously and try to figure it out again and again.
"What does he mean by this sentence? Does it matter to me? "
Will guess your ideal type and try to get close.
This is not flattery, but an effort to be loved.
Obviously, you are chic and free when you are single, but after knowing that you like a gentle and lovely girl, she will involuntarily try to do something that can highlight her "gentleness and loveliness".
Sometimes the information is returned very slowly, but it is actually playing hard to get.
No matter how much they like you, they have their own reasons.
The more you pay, the more you are afraid of disappointment; The more you invest, the more you are afraid of not being cherished; They always work hard and run far, and then suddenly wake up and stop to tell themselves, "It's time to put on airs, or he won't know how to cherish."
This naive thinking makes them smart enough to express her girlish feelings by "alternating between cold and hot, pretending to be fearless". So she will deliberately create a plot to make you jealous, pretend that she doesn't like to make you panic, and deliberately say "break up" to let you stay.
Will work harder, the essence is because of gains and losses.
Girls, after all, are still too modest. A well-known beauty always looks in the mirror and finds fault with herself.
After liking you, they basically have a sense of urgency: "Only when I become better can he like me more."
As a result, healthy girls began to lose too much weight, and comely girls began to have crazy plastic surgery. They try to balance their gains and losses through appearance, which is easy to improve in the short term.
Unwilling to clean up all the carriers that carry memories such as chat records.
She thinks all memory carriers, such as photo albums, small objects and chat records, are particularly valuable.
Even, she can't wait to write down every minute and every little thing with you.
So I always take photos wherever I go, and I often buy small things as souvenirs. The mobile phone memo is full of ups and downs of two people.
The essence is not because she likes these things-but these things, which are proof of her happiness when she is with you.
Second, interactive performance: with you, the mood fluctuates greatly, and when she is happy, she is heartless, and a little thing can make her sad.
A girl who falls in love is like a princess in a Disney fairy tale. In the daily life with you, the brain circuit becomes shorter, and love and hate are in an instant.
One second, you gave me a compliment, and the next, you cried, because some of your actions have made her cold; One second, I believe that the relationship between two people can be as firm as Mount Tai and as firm as a rock, and the next second, I feel that I am a poor man who has given everything and will be disappointed.
Will be emotional because of your behavior, or in a sense, you decide her mood.
Imagine the future of two people.
Only girls who trust you completely and have no complaints about you are willing to imagine the future with you.
Life is long, and no one will waste the rest of his life for short novelty and blindness.
Obviously changed for you.
If you find a girl who is willing to change her former self for you, she must like you very much.
After all, everyone has the first half of his life and has his own deep-rooted lifestyle; Most people just choose to "tolerate" each other's shortcomings, but few people propose to correct themselves according to the needs of the other half.
1 Gradually incline to your aesthetics.
This is an emotional identity, as the saying goes, "Love me, love my dog".
Her favorite style is more and more like you, her favorite food is more and more like you, and even her tone and expression are more and more like you.
1 can't help showing weakness.
There are no real women in this world, only feelings that are not strong enough.
A girl who really likes you will really show something that others don't know. She will become soft and even make a baby-like sound on purpose. In a space where there are only two of you, they are willing to show off your boyfriend's strength and satisfy your desire for protection.
In short, girls' likes may not be obvious and not choppy enough;
But every kind of beauty is hidden in the changing waves. As long as you do it with your heart, you will definitely feel it.
So profound, national second-class psychological counselor, member of Dalian Psychological Society, translator of non-violent communication between men and women, 34 years old, married, with academic qualifications. Nearly ten years of senior psychological and emotional counseling experience, consulting cases over ten thousand. Since 20 1 1, she has been engaged in psychological and emotional research and consultation, and is good at intimate relationship guidance, psychological and emotional problem consultation, and emotional crisis handling. , including the recovery of love breakup, divorce/affair crisis in marriage, etc. I believe I can give you some good advice from the professional point of view, consulting experience and life experience. If you have emotional problems, please leave a message for Kege, and he will teach you how to solve them scientifically.