Because of this sentence, many parents are troubled because their children have not been admitted to prestigious schools. I am one of them, and I have been looking for answers. This time I went back to my hometown for the New Year and found the answer in my neighbor's house.
I have two neighbors, one is Lu and the other is Bai.
The son of Baijia was admitted to the famous Peking University, while the son of Lujia was not even admitted to high school. The two families are neighbors and their children are the same age.
Xiaobai studied well since childhood, and the testimonials at home were plastered all over the wall, which made the neighbors envious and was sent to the local key high school. Because my son studies well, his family is the focus of training, his mother is at home, and his father goes out to work alone to earn money. Life at home is also very tight.
Xiaolu didn't even get into high school. Mom and dad feel ashamed. They tried to get him to take a second interview to prepare for next year's exam. Xiao Luluan disagreed anyway, saying that she was not cut out for reading. Lao Lu and his wife called all their relatives and neighbors and advised their son to continue studying, but he never nodded.
Lao Lu and his wife were very angry. They took their son and his family out to work in the city and made him do heavy work, hoping that his son would be too tired to go back to school. Xiao Lu's mother felt ashamed because her son didn't go to school. She is afraid that others will say that he has only one child at home and let him work to earn money. See relatives and friends in advance and say, my son doesn't want to go to school, so let him work hard. Listen, he's tired, but he regrets it.
Xiao Lu has worked in the factory for half a year, and never talks about hardship and tiredness, let alone going to school. His parents often sound out whether he wants to go back to school. Let him go back to school if you like. He said he didn't want to
Lao Lu discussed with his wife that his son really didn't want to study, so he stopped pushing him. Family planning. Since I don't want to study, I will try to make money and save money to go back to my hometown to build a new house and marry Xiao Lu. Boys and girls who didn't study in the countryside got married and had children early.
Lao Lv worked for three years and went back to his hometown to build a new building for his son.
Three years later, Xiao Bai was admitted to Peking University. All of Fiona Fang knows that the county leaders sent a congratulatory letter, and some reporters came to interview: How did the old white couple cultivate Xiaobai, an excellent child?
That year, Xiao Lu fell in love with his colleagues, got married at the age of 22, and had children at the age of 23. The father felt a little guilty that his son didn't go to college. He hopes that his grandson will study in a good environment and may be admitted to various schools. Only by buying a house in this city can children from other places go to a good local school.
After discussion, the whole family decided to buy a house before their grandson went to primary school. Buying a house is not going back to your hometown to build a house. It can cost hundreds of thousands at most, and it needs millions. Lao Lu said that as long as Qi Xin works together and a family of four works overtime on weekends, we can buy a house. Let your mother keep all our four salary cards. Try to save money to buy a house in this city, so that Bao Xiao can get a good education in a good school. Although Lao Lu's family bought a house in the city, they usually live, one adult goes to work and one goes to school, and they still go back to their hometown every Spring Festival.
In order to return home conveniently, the family saves money to buy a car! At the end of each year, as long as the unit has a holiday, Xiao Lu drives his parents, wife and children back to his hometown for the New Year.
Three generations of a family are happy! During the Chinese New Year, my father buys and washes vegetables, and my mother cooks. After dinner, my son tidied up the dishes, wiped the table and mopped the floor. Daughter-in-law washes the dishes, and grandpa takes his grandson out to play. Grandma holds melon seeds and chats with her neighbors, sometimes playing small cards. My son watches the Winter Olympics after doing housework, and my daughter-in-law watches Tik Tok after doing housework.
Everyone has fun and everyone has a job. This is the family rule of Lao Lu's family. Family members should share housework. Lao Lu is the master, and the family rules must be observed first.
Usually Lao Lu is responsible for buying and washing vegetables, and his wife cooks. After the family finished eating, his son washed the dishes. Later, his wife joined in. She washes the dishes and her son mops the floor. When his grandson knows how to do housework, he takes the lead when no one is at home. For example, when his mother is not at home, he washes the dishes instead of being clean from the beginning, but he still insists on doing it. Later, I also washed it properly. Lao Lu also said that children do housework without delaying their studies. Their grandson's academic performance is excellent. Sometimes the process of doing housework is written into articles, and the teacher even praises him.
Three generations of a family are United, live in harmony, enjoy themselves and live a happy life.
During the Spring Festival, other people's families are busy housewives. Before dawn, they prepared breakfast for the whole family, then woke up one by one to eat, clean up, clean up the dishes, wash the pots and pans after dinner, and began to prepare lunch. Because Chinese New Year restaurants are closed in rural areas, all relatives come to eat at home, and every meal is several courses. After lunch, the whole family washed dishes, pots and pans and began to plan what to eat for dinner. If it runs in the family is at home, the little grandson cooks for him, and the housewife is the busiest. The scenery at home is that the father watches Tik Tok, the son plays games and the daughter-in-law takes the children to play. Only mother is busy from morning till night. This is a common scene, where a housewife does the work, and four people in the Lao Lujia family share it.
During the Spring Festival, I brushed a man and a woman in Tik Tok to tease the Spring Festival. Women are busy, busy with hygiene, busy with new year's goods, busy with new year's goods, busy with new year's goods, busy with new year's goods, busy with three meals. Women are very tired and tired during the New Year, while men have a good time eating, drinking and sleeping. I commented that I compared people to pigs and covered my face with expression packs.
Xiaobai's parents also strive to make money for Xiaobai to go to college, finish college, graduate school, graduate school and start working. No new house has been built at home. My mother scrimped and saved, and prepared to pay a down payment for Xiaobai to buy a house in Beijing, but Xiaobai works in Beijing, and the house in Beijing is too expensive to buy.
After Xiao Bai worked, his parents also urged him to fall in love and get married. Xiao Bai said, don't worry. I'll work for a few years before I get married when I buy a house in Beijing. My parents said, no, I'll buy a house in a second-tier city first and get married first. Xiaobai is still in no hurry. Year after year passed.
Xiaobai is 37 years old this year. He is in no hurry to get a girlfriend. His mother has been urging him to tell everyone that the child is too disobedient, but he can't say that he won't come back for the New Year unless he loses his girlfriend next year.
Now the old white couple envy the old Lujia for three generations! Their family had a daughter-in-law in the first year, a grandson in the second year, and a granddaughter ten years later, and their popularity became more and more prosperous!
Although Xiaobai works in Beijing, she comes back to spend the New Year with her parents every year. Her mother urged her to get married this year, and she didn't come back for the Spring Festival. Only the old couple celebrate the New Year, and the home is deserted. The old couple frowned and everyone said that the child was disobedient.
Xiaobai's mother sighed: Our little boy is 37 years old, and he is in no hurry to find someone. Xiao Lu is 37 years old and his son is in junior high school.
Xiao Lu's son is very much like Xiaobai when he was a child. His grades have always been excellent, and the awards at home in junior high school have been posted all over the wall.
Every parent wants his child to be admitted to a prestigious school. After all, Tsinghua Peking University has limited resources. If their children don't go to college, don't be discouraged if they go to college.
Without the bottom of society, how can there be a top? Without the workers in the garment factory, what will those who sit in the office wear? The food eaten by the whole people belongs to hardworking people.
What is a successful education? But the children are healthy, psychologically healthy, law-abiding, and rely on their own efforts to support themselves and their families.