In the ideal or traditional concept, in the eyes of others, it is the concept that men make money and women support their families. If you dress up at home and women go out to make money, it is understandable, but it will inevitably be gossiped, because it is contrary to traditional ideas.
Reality is still reality, life is still life, two people always earn more money than one person, and they are also relaxed. Housework still needs to be done. When a man comes home from work, he is tired of seeing his daughter-in-law and helps him deepen his feelings. In short, concrete analysis of specific problems.
Life is life, but it does not hinder the pursuit of ideals. This division of labor between men and women can be tilted to some extent under balanced conditions, but it is not completely tilted.
Men are responsible for making money to support their families, and women are responsible for beauty.
This sentence itself is an idea, not a model or system. No one will ask you to have such a strict division of labor between men and women at home, but at least in front of outsiders, you should try your best to show this in the traditional society, and everyone will not think you are eccentric.
In fact, this traditional concept is not the mainstream in the current social atmosphere. Have economic strength, harmonious relationship between husband and wife, and the family is willing. Women can go out to earn money, men can raise children at home, but when they return to their hometown, they have to bear the possible finger pointing of seven aunts and eight aunts.