But no matter which side, work is always a very important part of life, because it is the foundation of life.
1. How to balance family and career
For the plot in TV series, in fact, the most obvious problem is the alienation of Sun Heping and his daughter.
In his own view, his efforts are actually to give children a better material foundation.
However, when he spent all his time, even without accompanying his children to grow up,
In fact, he didn't get what he wanted, and even made his daughter look so strange standing in front of him.
This is the reason why he regrets: he has tried his best, but the result is always unsatisfactory and he can't reach his goal.
Of course, for us, perhaps, we can't understand Sun Heping's feelings, because we are only facing a job.
This job can provide a family with the lowest daily consumption and meet their daily needs.
However, it is true that this job also consumes a lot of time with family and occupies a very important part of our lives.
Therefore, how to balance and coordinate family daily work and workplace work has become a problem that many people also need to face.
2. Whether at home or outside, it is giving.
Except for some unmarried single men and women, couples who have entered the marriage hall face two problems:
First, it is the sharing of family problems. Second, it is the balance and care for the family's various material needs.
Especially those families with two employees, the daily contradiction is that the pay is not proportional to the gain.
In the eyes of many husbands, they have worked hard for this family for a day and should get enough rest when they get home.
Similarly, my wife works all day. She didn't want to go home and face all the trivial matters, which led to a quarrel.
But in fact, the question is never who has done how much, but how the other side views each other's efforts.
When anyone tries to do something, he doesn't want the other person to just enjoy the result and ignore his own efforts.
In other words, wandering outside is a contribution to the family, and taking care of it at home is also a contribution. Neither of these contributions should be ignored.
You should know what you want.
For many strong women, the most important problem is not knowing how to balance the relationship between family and career.
They are used to putting some rules of the workplace in their own family management, which is actually inhuman in itself.
Whether it's a man outside the house and a woman inside, or a woman outside the house and a man inside the house, they all want your home to be better in essence.