1. Eating
is the first day. When a child is born, he will breastfeed without teaching, which can be said to be completely subconscious. Growing up, everyone knows the truth that "food is the most important thing for the people", but they pay the most attention to eating. Eating is by no means fattening themselves up, but eating should be nutritious, healthy and even interesting. Eat gracefully, eat rhythmically and moderately, and tell a lot of truth when you eat. This is what you will eat. Such people can be called "eaters". Know what is "frying, frying, frying, stir-frying and cooking", what is "delicacies, birds and animals" and what is "fresh fruits and vegetables, rare game". At a banquet, all the dishes can't be served at once, and they should be served one by one. The lady who delivers the dishes should walk gracefully, and the dishes should be salty first and then light. Even if she goes out to eat noodles, she should try to eat the "noodle soup". Can you eat this state without hard work? Only in this way, the status of "eater" may be promoted to "gourmet"
Although eating ranks first among the five poisons, I think it is non-toxic!
second, drinking
drinking is drinking. Children will want sweet drinks, but most adult men actually like spicy drinks. Because there are too many things and too much pressure, you have to release them. You really can't release yourself and paralyze yourself. Injection of anesthetic is obviously not the best choice, but it is better to choose wine.
wine is a good thing. Red, white and yellow are delicious and sweet, and the taste is perfect. Where is the word "spicy"? For people who drink good wine, there are various names: Dionysus, Brewmaster, alcoholic, drinker, and the lowest is drunkard. Li Bai's hundreds of poems about fighting wine can be described as Dionysus. Those who are not drunk by the weight of the wine can be called Brewmaster, while those who can't live without wine three times a day are alcoholics, who rely on wine to anesthetize themselves all day, doing nothing, and ignoring family matters are alcoholics and drunkards.
As the saying goes, drinking can achieve great things, but it can also make great things wrong. Being drunk hurts Yuan Shen, and drinking too much hurts the liver and spleen. Therefore, I think wine is both a tonic and a drug, and it can only be enough, and it is better to be appropriate.
Third, whoring
The word whoring is the most eloquent. All women have always gnashed their teeth at seeing their husbands whoring with women outside, but now, this situation has changed subtly. As prostitutes, they are naturally men who like to go whoring, because these stupid men are their food and clothing parents and their gods. Although they will secretly scold afterwards: bah! Devil wears prada! But I won't blame them. So they treat these men as "guests", and ordinary people also call them "clients".
So, as a good woman, do you like men who are clients? It feels unlikely. But there are exceptions In the face of prostitutes, men are rarely emotional, but only regard this as a one-time transaction, that is, the sale of money and flesh. Whether it is a mistress or a mistress, the man pays not only money, but also their feelings. This situation is undoubtedly a great threat to the women at home. Therefore, many wives acquiesce in men's so-called "take part in accidental amusement". As long as they don't pay their feelings, they can never tolerate keeping mistresses with colorful flags flying outside. Of course, it is not a kind of love, but it can be said to be a kind of helplessness.
In today's society, pornography is almost rampant. There is a strange theory that there are fewer rape cases because there are more prostitutes, which seems to be beneficial to social stability. I really can't agree with this strange theory. As for how much toxin the clients bring to the whole society, experts have their own to identify it.
IV. Gambling
Gambling, the average wife can tolerate her husband's conduct more or less. Although the name is not good, gambler, gambler and gambler, as long as men have a little sense, they will not put their wives on the gambling table and leave their wives behind. Naturally, women will happily put on men's arms and go in and out of today's many chess rooms and mahjong halls together. In Shanghai Opera, there is a story that "Lu Yachen lost the gambling and sold his wife". As a result, the prodigal son never changed his money, and his mother-in-law forgave him.
how much charm a man will lose if he doesn't gamble all his life, and it will be even more boring if he always plays it safe. Now men's gambling tools have been made public, and they have begun to bet on numbers, horses and races (such as football lottery). Maybe one day, the God of Luck will suddenly visit, and the little beggar with no place to stand will suddenly become a millionaire with millions of people. So the way women look at him, besides gentle waves, is it affectionate?
What's more, stock trading is also gambling. The government has publicly opened the stock market and allowed the mahjong room in chess room to open. Gambling is already open. Can this be regarded as "poison"? Nowadays, in addition to dancing, most women have learned to play mahjong in their spare time. People are obsessed with mahjong tables, and fewer people gather to petition for trouble. This kind of "poison" is also beneficial.
v. smoking
the fifth of the five poisons is smoking. Some people used to regard drug abuse as one of the five poisons. I still think it is appropriate to regard smoking as one of the "five poisons" that men often have. The reason why drug abuse is not included in the five poisons is that it is not universally related.
Many women don't care whether men smoke or not. In women's view, men smoke, of course, with as elegant a posture as possible and as high-grade a cigarette as possible, so there is no problem. From a certain point of view, "smokers are more men" is a monologue of many women. Didn't someone write a song "Taste" for this purpose, "I miss your kiss, the faint smell of tobacco with your fingers, and the taste of being loved in my memory." In fact, smoking is not a man's patent. Is it hard to say that women don't like it?
In today's society, women have also started to follow the fashion and learned to smoke. With thin cigars between their fingers, women are also satisfied behind the smog. It is not so much because of the smoke itself as because of the unspeakable things that smoke represents. People used to call smokers "heavy smokers", but now they call smokers "smokers". It is these millions of smokers in Qian Qian who have created huge tax benefits for the country. Isn't the biggest tax in China the tax on cigarettes and alcohol?
A man must love something. What do you think of the so-called "five poisons"? Do you like being a guest? Still willing to be a "ghost"? Haha, let's give priority to our hobbies. People should not embarrass themselves. The most important thing is to have self-control. No matter what kind of "poison" you occupy, don't be obsessed with it. Remember, the money spent is your own! A healthy body is your own! A happy family is your own!