Because of fatigue, I have no extra energy to resist negative emotions.
After giving birth to a child, because the child didn't sleep all night for a year and a half, he always woke up for two hours to feed and cuddle, and all kinds of mothers were very tired every day. When a child cries countless times at night, it is likely that he can't resist the invasion of bad emotions and loses his temper with the child.
Bad temper can be said to be the patent of the poor. When I say poverty here, I mean that I can't put my hands on people's plight, not that I can't afford to eat, nor that "people who spend their sleeping time at work in order to buy luxury goods with money" are not included.
The way to get rid of "poverty" may just be to force yourself to endure to infinity. Just like the mother who hasn't slept enough for more than a year, she knows that even if she loses her temper with her children, it won't change the status quo. She will only let him continue to cause more trouble. She can only force herself to treat with infinite patience, change her mood and turn impatience into love. "The baby is lovely, and the mother doesn't cry with it! Mom won't let others hurt you, go to sleep! " Maybe I'm sleepy and I can't open my eyes, and my whole body is resisting. I'm coaxing my baby as well as my own thoughts. "Honey, don't bother, the baby will soon fall asleep, even if it doesn't matter for a long time. Isn't it another night? After so many nights, it's nothing to you. "
When patience is extended to infinity, is there anything else in this world that can bother you? Is there anything you want to do but can't do? Does not exist.