When a woman gets married, she is full of infinite longing and yearning for a man, thinking that this man will be good to herself. Real life is often unsatisfactory. When all illusions about men are shattered, women will think of divorce to get rid of it.
No matter how busy a man is at work, he should not neglect his care and love for his loved ones, even if it is a little touching behavior.
Men's five behaviors of "spoiling their wives", but if they take one, women will not divorce!
One: Give financial power to your wife.
It's actually quite good for a man to make money and then give it to his wife for safekeeping, as long as her wife doesn't lose her family.
In real life, men spend a lot of money. Giving money to your wife can save a lot.
Of course, it doesn't mean that the control of money is entirely decided by women. What husband and wife want to do with money must be discussed together.
If a man is willing to give his hard-earned money to his wife, it proves that he trusts his wife, don't worry. Women will also feel the respect of their husbands, and their hearts will be more practical.
It is said that men become bad when they have money. How bad can it be when all the money is in the hands of their wives?
Two: No matter where you are, you will tell each other truthfully.
Married couples are teammates in the same boat. Everyone knows how important it is to cooperate with teammates.
The husband is working outside, and the wife must want to know his whereabouts. A good man will tell his wife wherever he goes and give him a call if he is late from work.
Some people say that this is a sign of a man's "henpecked wife", and I think this is respect and love for his wife.
Imagine, if my husband's cell phone is turned off and he doesn't come home from work, who won't worry?
Most half-hearted people lie to each other about where they are.
Overtime, business trip, social intercourse, these excuses are often the beginning of a person's deception, because he is having an affair with another woman.
You are in his company, and he said that he also works overtime in the company, but you can't see anyone; You came home early, and he said he was at home, even if you lied, it was obvious.
If you find a person hiding his position from you, then nine times out of ten there is something fishy.
Three: Always be the active party after quarreling.
Tongue and teeth sometimes bite together, and couples are sure to quarrel.
It is difficult for an honest official to break housework. Some things are not right or wrong, but two people are emotionally unstable.
The most common quarrel between husband and wife is the cold war. I won't take the initiative unless you bow your head. Some couples can even stop talking for a month.
Everyone's heart is hoping that the other party can take the initiative to stand up, give themselves a step down, and then reconcile.
I think men can take the initiative, no matter right or wrong, they can take the initiative to stand up and solve problems and resume communication. I believe that most women will stop being stubborn.
Four: I will help my wife share the housework.
First of all, make sure that housework is not a wife's patent, and men also have the responsibility and obligation to do housework.
In some families, the man is outside and the woman is inside. Men go out to earn money to support their families, and women teach their children at home.
When a man comes home, if he has free time, he can help with housework and take care of children.
In fact, as we all know, it is not easy to be a full-time housewife. It really takes a lot of energy to do a good job in family hygiene, laundry and cooking, and take good care of children. Many women prefer to go out to work and hire hourly workers to do housework.
A man can understand his wife's difficulties, and a woman can understand her husband's difficulties in making money. This is a mutual process.
Five: I will not neglect my wife when I am old.
This last point is really too important. This is why many families fall apart.
Couples have been together for decades, and some men have completely lost interest in their wives and started to neglect them. They are very enthusiastic about the opposite sex outside, and the relationship between husband and wife is no longer close.
First of all, apart from physical problems, what women actually need more is emotional support. Men can be at a loss because they get older, but they can't turn a blind eye to their wives and don't care at all.
Some couples will sleep in separate rooms when they are around 50. Actually, I think this will affect their feelings. Don't make such a decision easily.
Spoiling a wife is emotional, not physical; Whether you can do it or not, you must show your attitude and don't let your wife get cold heart.
As the saying goes, most women are content to marry a chicken and follow a dog. As long as the men they marry are good to themselves, they will be happy no matter how poor they are. I'm afraid of marrying a man. I am not rich, I don't care, I don't make progress, and I have all kinds of philandering. Divorce is the only way out.
The wife still needs to be "spoiled". When you spoil her, she will love you more. This kind of marriage will be more and more happy, but now many couples are too selfish, only thinking about themselves, and finally divorce!
There are many ways for men to spoil their wives, but as long as these five can account for one or two, women are reluctant to divorce.