In this life, people will always encounter pitfalls that cannot be overcome, fatigue that cannot be relieved, and people who will be missed in the blink of an eye.
Sometimes, we draw a wall. The harder we work, the more tired we become. The more we strive for, the more we lose. The more we worry about the future, the more confused we become about the present.
But I don’t know that sometimes by changing yourself, you can move forward safely. I hope you can hold the following three keys to changing yourself and live your life vividly.
As the saying goes: "If you move a tree, you will die, but if you move a person, you will live." Sometimes it is much easier to turn a corner and walk in a different way.
Professor Wick did an experiment where he put several bees into a flat bottle with the bottom of the bottle facing the light.
The bees kept hitting the wall toward the light, and finally stopped on the bright side, dying.
Then put a few flies in the bottle, and within a few minutes, all the flies flew out.
The reason is that flies will try many directions, up, down, towards the light, and backlight. If one direction fails, they will immediately change direction. Although you will inevitably hit the wall many times, you will eventually fly to the bottleneck and escape from the prison.
There is a saying in the "Book of Changes": "If you are poor, you will change, if you change, you will be general, and if you are general, you will be long-lasting."
In Germany, a papermaker accidentally made paper while producing paper. They got the recipe wrong and produced a batch of waste paper that couldn't be written on.
I lost my job because of this incident. Just when he was discouraged and frowning.
His friend advised him: "Everything has two sides. This road will not work, so turn around and take another one."
After listening to his friend's words, he took a deep breath and picked up the He was drinking water from the cup, but he accidentally knocked it over. The water in the cup happened to pour onto the paper next to him. He found that the paper was quite absorbent.
Next, he cut the batch of paper into small pieces, named it "absorbent paper", and sold it in the market, which turned out to be very popular. Later he applied for a patent and exclusively produced absorbent paper.
Sometimes, people just like to stick to one thing and stubbornly think that it should be like this.
Even though he knows that this road will lead nowhere, he still insists on rushing forward, pretending not to look back until he hits the wall.
In fact, as long as you stop and turn a corner, you will find twists and turns. There are many roads to walk in this life, and no road can be walked forever.
Therefore, when the road ahead is unavailable, remember to turn a corner. The scenery on the other road will give you unexpected gains.
A young man was carrying a big package and met Master Wuji with a lot of worries. He asked: "Master, I am lonely and painful, and have no confidence in life.
During the long journey, I experienced disappointment and despair. My shoes were torn, thorns cut my feet, and my hands were injured. I am bleeding, my voice is hoarse from shouting, why can’t I find the sunshine in my heart?” I am important now. I am only pretending to have everything I have in the past, and it is only because of it that I came to you." So Master Wuji took the young man to the river, and they crossed the river by boat and waited to go ashore. back. The master said: "You carry the boat and go on your way!"
"What, carry the boat and go on your way?" The young man was surprised: "The boat is so heavy, can I carry it?"
The master smiled slightly: "Yes, you can't carry it. The boat is useful when crossing the river. But after crossing the river, we have to put down the boat and hurry up."
Some things are very important in life meaning, but if you persist too much, it becomes a burden. People sometimes set circles for themselves, and habitually circle in their own circles, trying their best to get the best of them, and being too persistent in some things.
If you can let go of these unpleasant things and live a passionate life, the pain will gradually dissipate.
In fact, sometimes, we should put aside the matter itself, sleep, eat, or even cry. Then look at the thing itself, maybe it will become simpler.
"No matter how big a thing is today, it will be a trivial matter tomorrow;
No matter how big a thing is this year, it will be a story next year;
No matter how big a thing is in this life, it will be a story next year. In the next life, it will be just a legend."
In all aspects of life, there will be many things that you cannot understand or think clearly. When things go wrong for you, please remember to let go of some of the obsessions that are weighing you down. When times pass and you look back, you will find that the mountains that were once insurmountable are just tiny pills in the distance.
Time flies by and we don’t have much time to remember. Don't rush forward blindly, sometimes you have to wait for the people around you, otherwise even if you reach the top, no one will cheer for you when you look back.
I read a story: A man hurried to the flower shop to order a bouquet of roses on the afternoon of his wedding anniversary.
He said to the person in the flower shop: "Please wrap the roses and deliver them to my house before dark."
Then he hurriedly wrote a card: "Dear , I have an important cocktail party tonight, and I’m sorry that I can’t celebrate with you.”
At this time, an old man came to the flower shop and said, “Give me a bouquet of Phalaenopsis. I want the most fragrant one."
The old man sighed at the wrapped flowers and said to himself, "My wife likes the Phalaenopsis best."
On his way to the meeting, the man happened to see an old man buying Phalaenopsis. He slowed down and followed him for a while until he entered the cemetery.
Looking at the old gentleman's back, the man's heart suddenly hurt. He turned the car around, quickly returned to the flower shop, and took away the bouquet of flowers that had not yet been delivered.
After returning home, the man and his wife had a happy and beautiful wedding anniversary. There are some things in life, and plans often fail to keep up with changes. We must have a heart to cherish the present.
Plato said: "The most regretful thing in life is to give up easily what should not be given up, and stubbornly persist in what should not be persisted."
The past is past, the future is Just hope, the only thing you can control is the present.
Most of the journey of life is loneliness.
Learn to turn, and everything you encounter is new scenery; be willing to let go, and what you lose does not belong to you; know how to cherish, and everything you welcome is beautiful.
Cherish the present; believe in the future.