When the bees fired at the flowers with spikes, the flowers did not fight back, but welcomed their full bloom, so the bees got the pollen and the flowers continued. So do people. In the face of the aggressive attitude of the enemy, it is better to shake hands and make peace, turn the enemy into a friend and win-win cooperation.
In life, there are always people standing on your opposite side. In the face of the enemy's glare, it is better to laugh it off and turn the enemy into a friend than to stare back.
After Lincoln was elected president of the United States, a general was very dissatisfied with him. He once said: Why go to the zoo to see monkeys? One is sitting in the presidential palace, scratching his head! ? It was suggested that Lincoln be removed from his office, but Lincoln put him in a higher position instead. Someone asked Lincoln why he didn't destroy the enemy, but encouraged him. Lincoln said with a smile, when I turned my enemies into friends, I was destroying my enemies. The general was finally moved by Lincoln and became an outstanding American general.
Lincoln treats the enemy, either you die or I die. The larger foe, instead of drawing the sword angrily, and? Enemy? Cooperation, increasing his friends, knowing how to turn enemies into friends and win-win cooperation may be the reasons why he won the civil war, the general election and the people's hearts.
Those who achieve great things will succeed with the help of everyone and understand the essence of cooperation. Fu is such a person.
On the eve of the imminent victory of the war of liberation, the PLA won the battle of Peiping and Tianjin. Fu is an army general in Beiping. At this time, he knew that he and the People's Liberation Army must never become enemies, and the ancient city of Peiping could not be lost! So he opened the gate and accepted the peaceful adaptation. On the day when the People's Liberation Army entered Beiping, he personally greeted it, and the ancient capital Beiping survived the devastation of war and was reborn.
People have been praising Fu's wise decision. It's actually quite simple. If you want Beiping to be complete, you must turn your enemy into your friend. Turn enemies into friends, and we can win together.
On the contrary, many people don't understand this truth, so they finally failed. During the Three Kingdoms period, there was a warlord named Yuan Biao. He is very talented, but his strength is very weak. His kinsman Yuan Shao wants to win the world with him, but he is tough. He firmly regards Yuan Shao as a competitor and an enemy who competes with him for the world. He firmly opened fire on his cousin and was finally wiped out.
As high school students who are about to enter the society, there are bound to be many passers-by on the road we face. We don't need to fight with them. As long as we hold their hands, the road to life will be smooth.
The enemy is inevitable, so it is better to turn the enemy's strength into one's own strength, and the keynote is that opposition is more than unity. Turn enemies into friends and win-win cooperation.
Today's society is a society full of competition and challenges, but this does not mean that we have to fight to the death in everything and learn to cooperate to win.
In modern society, psychology has changed from an unpopular one to a hot one. The internal cause is the rapid development of modern society. Many people live in a fast-paced process, and people are full of competitive consciousness, which has caused great psychological pressure, so psychology has attracted much attention.
Although competition is a good thing and can stimulate people's potential, cooperation is also needed in competition, and such competition is benign. However, nowadays, between many people? Abnormal competition? Create a scene? How tragic? . At present, the suicide rate in Japan is very high, and there are not a few people who commit suicide every year because of psychological pressure; The same is true of Silicon Valley in the United States. Many people resort to all means of competition for high salary, which leads to high unemployment rate and increased suicide rate every year.
It can be seen that competition without cooperation is not desirable. The first premise of cooperation is to have a win-win mentality, that is, we cooperate for the same goals and interests. We participate in competition to improve ourselves and motivate ourselves, not to defeat others. Everyone who takes part in the competition has a dual identity, that is? Conqueror? With what? Conquered . As a famous person said: Our greatest enemy is ourselves. ? Participating in competition means cooperating in competition, competing in cooperation, and finally defeating and improving yourself.
Only with this mentality can we be in an invincible position in the competition. Don't rejoice in things, don't grieve for yourself? At the same time, strive for * * * victory.
Madame Curie, the Nobel Prize winner, cooperated with her husband Pierre to extract radium and dedicated this achievement to the world. At the same time, many scientists and Madame Curie studied the same subject, but Madame Curie put it off? Abnormal competition? Bound into a book, the research results of their husband and wife will be written into a report, and the extraction method, research process and so on will be stated. Their purpose is to cooperate with other scientists to extract more radium elements that are beneficial to the world. They refused to apply for patents, and they hoped that the world would share their achievements and win-win cooperation with scientists all over the world.
Madame Curie's achievements make us sigh, but at the same time we have the mentality that she will not be carried away by competition, actively participate in the competition, and win-win cooperation at the same time. This shows that competition and cooperation are not incompatible, they are a unified whole, and they are both powerful driving forces to improve themselves and promote social progress and development.
In the era of fierce competition in learning, we must keep a correct attitude, not just study for competition, but make it clear that the purpose of learning is to enrich ourselves, the purpose of competition is to improve ourselves, and we must learn to win in the competition. Cooperation * * * win-win, active competition towards harmony.
In today's rapidly developing society, the survival of the fittest is always on the stage, and the survival of the fittest has always been an unchangeable law. It seems that only by comparing with each other can we make progress and seek win-win elements in cooperation. The competition is becoming more and more fierce. From the school where the workplace spreads, from the plant kingdom to the animal kingdom, until the end, the whole society is full of fierce competition, and wars without smoke will break out all over the world at any time. People live in the footsteps of the times, with a fast pace, as if afraid that if they can't keep up with this pace, they will be compared and eliminated by society.
But people forget that besides competition, there is another model that can be successful, and that is cooperation. Cooperate properly in competition, and do not forget the heart of competition in cooperation. Good cooperation can bring a win-win situation. What is this? Win-win means that both sides get their own interests and are satisfied. Aren't we competing for limited resources in the infinite demand? From this point of view, win-win is indeed a feasible way to benefit others and benefit themselves, but in the era of fierce competition, people often ignore this point.
In fact, examples of win-win cooperation are staged in our lives all the time. For example, the students in the school are cooperative in discussing problems and doing problems, competitive in examinations and appraisals, and chasing each other and making progress in the study life intertwined with competition and cooperation again and again. For example, the major entrepreneurs who do public welfare undertakings have not only gained recognition from the business community and society, but also improved the visibility of their own enterprises while paying financial, material and human resources. In this competitive society, we must put aside? Personal interests are everything? Sure, can we? Egoism? But self-interest doesn't have to be based on? Hurt people? On the basis of. There is a lot of cooperation that can finally get a win-win result.
Behind every successful person, there are a lot of people helping. When they encounter problems, their first thought is not to solve them themselves, but to find partners to discuss, brainstorm and learn from others. In this way, everyone gets practical benefits, which makes it easier to succeed. Those movie stars all have production teams; Moreover, those singers also have people who help them write and compose music and record companies who help them promote it. The success of these people is not only based on their own ability, but also the result of team strength and cooperation, so some people say this is a? Cooperative era? . Success depends on organizations and groups, not just individuals, and it is not necessary to win. There is nothing in the world. All-around champion? . Only mutual benefit can gain more opportunities, wealth and resources.
How can we achieve mutual benefit? That is to seek cooperation in difficult times and seek a win-win situation in cooperation.
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