About "a person you deny, but can't let go, what will you do?" This question, Bian Xiao sorted out the user's answers from multiple channels, so that everyone can understand it more comprehensively.
1. The following opinions were praised by 1 16 people, and there were 24 exchanges and discussions:
In the emotional world, many times people think they can put it away freely, but how can they know that the obstacles in their hearts can't pass! As the landlord said, a person who is denied by himself can't let go. Because love comes from the inner acceptance of each other, and there has been indelible intimacy. With the rainy season, the extraordinary feeling lingers in my heart and silently pours into my heart. However, in this earthly reality, how many people can keep everlasting love? Some roads can obviously go on as one pleases, but they are ruthlessly interrupted by the other party for some reason. In the face of this obvious fact, they woke up and felt nothing. The other person is just a person who is denied by you and is destined to pass by! Those who have been hurt are naturally hard to forget! However, life is too short. Since you can't reach the end of your feelings, you should face them rationally. Don't let your mentality bind your feelings and your life! Sometimes there must be something in life, and there is no need to force it in life. Don't stay, don't give in, don't beg, never go the wrong way, don't worry about the obstacles you can't get through, and those who can't forget should come to an end! A new journey, a new starting point, it is indispensable to be calm. Even if it is prosperous, it is still a cloud, and it will be sunny if you want to open it! When the road is blocked, choose to turn, believe in yourself, there is always a place to shelter you from the wind and rain, and there is always someone who really belongs to you!
2. Wonderful answer:
Xie Wukong invited someone you denied, but you couldn't let go. Both boyfriend and girlfriend denied it, which proved that it was for your own good, but they didn't like some of his practices. You denied your marriage, maybe you did something you shouldn't have done and touched your bottom line, but you still have feelings for him. If you can't tolerate it, just leave for the children, so as not to hurt the children in the end.
3. Wonderful answer:
Thank you for inviting me! Now that you are denied, you can't let go, but I don't know what this means, because you can't let go of this relationship, or you are struggling. After leaving you, the other party will not take good care of themselves. If it is the former, it proves that you actually have some nostalgia for him. If you manage this relationship well, maybe you will come together. If it is the latter, the feelings for him are very weak, and more is just a kind of heartfelt goodwill. In this case, sympathy is greater than love. Personally, I think you can leave him completely. There is no need to let him go, because someone will always take care of him. What are you worried about? Forgive me!
4. Wonderful answer:
Seeing this problem, my heart can't help trembling. This question is too similar to mine. People say that once I close my heart to this person, it will be difficult for this person to open it again, but I can't let go of the same problem. Next, let me tell my story! It's a bit old-fashioned, but it is. I've been with her for over two years, almost three years. We go to school together, eat together, and are inseparable. We changed from classmates to friends, and then the relationship became better and better. However, as time goes on, we get to know each other better and better. For some people, we should know each other better and better, but for us, we know each other better and know each other's thoughts too well. At first, we would quarrel and make up, but slowly, we began to perfunctory and doubt each other. Then, the explosion that followed made us feel that our thoughts, behaviors, words and deeds were not on the right track. She really hurt my heart and led to more and more separation. Now she has found a new partner, and although I have a good and full life in the new environment, sometimes I am in my mind. Of course, if it's fate, I believe you will make up again!
5. Wonderful answer:
Let nature take its course, time will heal and give you the answer. People are not natural and unrestrained in front of feelings, unless they say that the other person is really not very important to you. Once you use your heart, no matter how you say it, it doesn't count to let it go. Your heart won't lie. Since you can't let go, don't force yourself, it won't work. You will only increase your troubles in the constant entanglement and contradiction. If you can't let it go, it's better to let it go, although the pain of the process is unpleasant. A friend of mine has been with her boyfriend for six years, junior high school and senior high school. It was her love dream from school uniform to wedding dress, but long-distance love has been separated for more than a year. I saw her change little by little. Until now, she still can't get over it completely, but she can tell her story calmly. This is a gift from time to her. I know she needs more time, I don't know how long. Let nature take its course. Don't always feel that you can't let it go. It's normal to let it go, because people have feelings, not cold-blooded animals, but don't lock yourself in your own world, locked in memories that you can escape. Things happen unpredictably and irretrievably. All you can do is accept, accept deeply. I hope we can all grow up to be our best selves.