Then again, why did his man cheat? It may be that the wife can't meet her husband's needs, or there is a gap between husband and wife, a contradiction, and the intervention of a mistress. If the wife didn't make a mistake, but the husband made a mistake first, then the wool is on the sheep. It is really painful for my wife to encounter such a problem. When you say you want a divorce, it may involve children, property and your own age. If you do this, the trend will be gone. If you don't divorce, you will feel uncomfortable, angry and complain about how to marry such a man every day. Of course, when the wife found out something was wrong, she made her husband confess honestly and saved the marriage. As the saying goes, husband and wife are grateful for a hundred days. How can you break it and forget it? Easier said than done! Being a wife and a mother is the pride of a woman's life, which is said by the world to be great, but it also means that there are women's concerns and burdens. It is not easy to be a wife, nor is it easy to be a husband. If two people don't have the same language and love in the past, then a crisis will occur. I think two people should take a step back and calm down first. A smart woman won't make a scene in this situation, because it won't help. As a wife, you can analyze the truth, know the pros and cons, speak confidently and see what your husband has to say. Really not, you can ask his relatives and friends for help and ask them to judge. This is because every man has self-esteem and wants to save face. Unless he is really not human, he will not be indifferent. If you act like you don't care, and you don't feel guilty or sorry, then whether you want to be together or not depends on what you think. A man who has done something wrong but dare not admit it, has no masculinity and sense of responsibility, so will he be happy living with such a man?
The above is my personal opinion. I wish you can survive this emotional crisis.