everyone admires her, and she also mingles with everyone. In less than a year, she was almost alone. As long as there was cooperation, everyone turned their faces, from the boss to the colleagues, and no one said that she was good. Then she left.
why? The reason is simple: she is poor.
I think of her because I recently read the book whose growth is not a risk of death.
This book combines many short stories to tell people's growth propositions, including thinking methods, growth rules, patterns and the cultivation of emotional intelligence and financial quotient. The writing is smooth and easy to understand.
There is only one proposition in life, and that is growth.
Being poor in heart solidifies people's thinking, traps themselves in a narrow state of mind, and hinders people's growth.
poor people are three points cold, and poor hearts are seven points bitter. Poor people only have their own eyes, and they can't hide that others are better than themselves. Poor people don't know how to be grateful.
Speaking of the female doctor, her boss appreciated her and naturally gave her an important task. Once she bought a plane ticket to go home, but the boss didn't agree. She didn't say much, so she complained directly to the leader and went back.
no matter who is right or wrong, it's wrong. In the leadership, there is naturally a bad influence, and the relationship between superiors and subordinates is not good. When the two men fell out, the boss still took care of face.
Later, when she had a little friction with her colleagues, she went around talking about other people's things, and gradually everyone avoided her, lest she tell on right and wrong.
She also brushed that face, saying that singer WF, movie stars ZW and LYP are very close to her, and they will have dinner and go to KTV when they go back.
actually, she had everyone's respect at first. Because everyone respects people who are better than themselves.
However, she is poor in heart, so she brushes that face, and then she only thinks that she can't lose a little, and she has no gratitude for the people she works with, so she will fight for something until she has no friends and no partners.
at last, she lost everyone's respect and confidence in her. Gone. In fact, she can have a better development.
such a person, because poor heart brings most negative energy to others, makes people uncomfortable. Who wants to cooperate with her?
Therefore, people should relax their minds, broaden their horizons, see that others are better than themselves, be grateful for their efforts, cooperate happily, and be comfortable with each other. By the height of others to grow and improve themselves.
People with poor hearts often live in their own imagination and feel that the world belongs to them, so it is hard to tolerate others getting a little benefit or neglecting themselves.
The female doctor went to the bank to handle business, but it was nothing more than saving money and transferring money, but she was a VIP customer with priority. Once she suspected that a salesman had neglected her, she immediately asked for all the money.
Generally, banks ask for an appointment for a large sum of money, but she is a VIP customer. She sits there and watches people panic to raise money.
Later, she talked about it angrily many times, and she didn't get any happiness from retaliatory cancellation. And the reaction of the listener aggravated her bad emotional reaction.
people say that the counter staff are hard-working and low-paid, so why bother to argue with them when you are a high-quality and high-income person?
doesn't she just feel that her VIP should be respected and can't be ignored? If there is sand in her heart, she will also make people unhappy.
it's a pity that she finally became the sand in others' eyes.
and when people are poor, ambition and courage to change disappear. There are many such poor people in the workplace. On the one hand, they complain that the workplace is cruel, and they don't agree with him from top to bottom. On the other hand, they don't want to devote their efforts to study and have nothing to contribute, and then they stare at others' promotion gains.
once people have such a caring mind, their hearts will be poor.
Then a little crisis makes people feel sinister and unfair, which makes others restless.
As long as the heart is not poor, people can change, challenge and earn the life they want with their hands. Such a life will have a sense of happiness.
most of the time, it is not others who bind us, but the heart that sets limits for itself.
There used to be an advertisement saying that the stage is as big as the heart. I'm impressed. I feel very good.
The book tells the story of Xiang Yu. Why did Xiang Yu fail? He fought bravely, and Han Xin said, "When King Xiang saw that people were respectful and loving, they vomited, people were sick, and they cried and ate." So many people willingly followed him. How did he fail?
The key point is that the subordinates have made meritorious deeds, and they should be rewarded. Xiang Yu could not bear to give it away, and he could not bear to rub the seal in his hand. Han Xin said it was a woman's kindness. Later, all his men went to Liu Bang.
The overlord of Chu has dominated the world, but his mind is so small. He doesn't care how much credit others can do, and he doesn't want to give others the benefits they deserve, so he lost his battlefield and the stage of life. Small-minded and small-minded.
poor heart and short sight. Being poor, I can't see the comfort of others, I don't want others to get benefits, and I stubbornly put others in the existing state. Xiang Yu went to failure in this way, losing heaven and earth and catching up with life.
People who are materially poor are short of material things. As long as they strive hard, they may be able to expand their horizons. But people with poor hearts are often short of hope, which not only hinders their own development, but may also bring suffering to people around them.
A few years ago, 41 people were killed in a fire on a Russian flight. These 41 people had a good chance to escape. It turned out that when everyone was busy running for their lives, an uncle blocked people's way out and took their luggage in no hurry. Then the fire spread and only three people fled when the plane exploded. The uncle had no guilt. He said, "I waited for 4 minutes, why didn't I return the ticket?"
This poor uncle is extremely selfish and brings others nightmares. Stay away from the poor and negative energy. Life is precious and needs more sunshine and oxygen.
people can be poor at home, but not at heart. As long as the poor people are willing to fight hard, they will step out of the predicament of life step by step.
People who are poor in heart are short of mind, vision, ambition and interest, and they are trapped in their own narrow mind and complain about others. Unless he can break out.
No matter in the workplace or on the road of life, stay away from the poor and let yourself move forward happily.
the theme of punching in the book review class of Qi Fanqi Business School 8