What do girls want most?

1. Girls want a lot of love and security. What is a lot of love is difficult to explain, but there is such a true story that may give you the answer: "I always think he is a little dull." Never say anything sweet, the only time you told me: I love you, or when we were just together. He often works overtime and never talks to me at work. Girls like romantic things, flowers and the like. He never sent me these. Sometimes I feel a little unwilling. There are many people chasing me. But when she thinks of me, when she has a cold and a fever, he takes care of me every step of the way; I forced him to kiss me in the crowded street. After he kissed me, he quickly lowered his face to the base of his neck. He doesn't stay up late, but every time I go out to drink with my friends and play late, he will wait for me to tell him that he is back and say good night to me before going to bed ... In these moments, my unwillingness is forgotten. " Love is probably that you are willing to pay for her and take it into account in future planning. It is an excuse to say that parents disagree and there is a big age gap. If you really like her, you will try to overcome it, and you will convince both parents with your own efforts and sincerity. No excuses, only no love. Maybe you don't have much money and look ordinary, but you can give you enough love and give her the best things he can think of. I think, even if her parents don't agree, she will choose to be with you without hesitation. Regarding the future, you have a plan and a promise. You work hard for it, take care of him, be kind to her and take responsibility. This is a lot of love. Second, enough sense of security, just one sentence: No matter what happens, I know you will always be by my side. When necessary, you are willing to leave everything behind and give her a company that others can't replace. Many boys always say that we are very busy at work, so we should work hard for the future and not give too much company. But is there a conflict between the two? The company that girls want is very simple. You are too busy to see me. You can call anytime, right? If you can't make a phone call in a meeting, you can always send a WeChat, right? You have no time to type slowly. You can always make a sound, right Are you that busy? Too busy to talk to me? You promised a brilliant future, but girls want the present. She wants to decide my future through the present. Nobody knows what will happen in the future. After asking so many people, there may not be a future. Everything is changing too fast, but what you can't do now, how can you guarantee that you can do it in the future? The future is very important, but the companionship and care of the present are more important. What a girl needs is true love, the present that makes her practical, not the future you describe to her. Many times, it's not that girls' minds are too hard to guess, but that boys are higher animals, with big nerves and not so delicate minds, and they are not willing to spend too much time thinking about this problem. Of course, many female friends around me want someone to say loyalty, kindness, devotion and companionship. There is no standard answer, but I believe that most girls want full love and enough security. What do girls want most? What are the needs of 25-year-old women? Innocent girls, especially those who fall in love for the first time, have pure and beautiful expectations for love. They yearn for supreme love, everyone wants to meet their ideal "Prince Charming", and everyone wants to be unconditionally cared for and admired by each other. There's nothing wrong with that. Isn't this what all classic works and beautiful poems have always described? Pursuing pure love is the real demand of girls, but some girls attach too much connotation to this demand, adding control desire, comparison heart and view of gain and loss, which can only cause great trouble in their hearts. The typical psychological state of young women in love is: on the one hand, they want to show their pride, on the other hand, they want to get the attention and love of the opposite sex; On the one hand, I hope my "Prince Charming" is versatile, rich and powerful, and stands high in front of outsiders. On the other hand, I hope he will not be so "individual" to himself and be gentle and considerate. When this mentality and strong personality are combined with a girl, it is easy to cause excessive tension in love and thus lose love. The needs of 35-year-old working women: it is not a man's patent to be unwilling to lose the traditional image and pursue career success. It is one of the real needs of all middle-aged women. At the same time, every middle-aged woman also hopes to inherit the traditional image of gentle, virtuous and caring for her husband and children. These two seemingly contradictory places, at least women need to pay more energy to change roles. What such a woman should do is: at home, seek the understanding and support of her husband, and then seek the understanding and support of her parents-in-law and children; In the unit, we should be good at seeking help and support from leaders and colleagues, and at the same time let subordinates share the work pressure. Doing so will make people around you feel that you are respected by a strong woman and help you share your worries. In addition, such female friends can also learn some stress-reducing skills: 1, distinguish between work and family, and prevent emotions from infecting each other; Leave work in the workspace within 8 hours, leave rest time for husband, children and yourself, and switch roles on the way to and from work. 2. Find someone to talk to, or vent your emotions (swearing or crying). Needs of 45-year-old middle-aged women: security, equality and warmth. Women around the age of 45 are often dubbed as "three noes"-no youth, no freedom and no capital. These people's careers are going downhill, or maintaining the status quo. The sense of family responsibility determines that they must shoulder the burden of supporting the elderly and raising young children, and the heavy housework makes them beautiful and detached. They live in a small kitchen world, busy with daily necessities and vinegar. There are few people who associate with them, and their vision is narrow. They are easy to become anxious and depressed, and their social functions shrink, and they are afraid of dealing with people. Because there is no career support, they feel inferior and insecure. In fact, what these women really need is a sense of security, warmth and equality in marriage. But their efforts seem to have got the opposite result. Their problem lies in their lack of independence. So, how should they decompress themselves? 1, relearn, increase self-confidence and find yourself again. Tell yourself: "You are a useful person and an indispensable member of the family." At the same time, we should strengthen our study, regain our sense of control over our lives and find our sense of independence. 2, careful observation, into the family atmosphere. Actively improve the relationship within the family, pay attention to the emotional communication between husband and wife, and educate children in a democratic way. Step 3 leave the kitchen. By participating in club activities and traveling, we can broaden our horizons and try to change the rhythm and habits of life, which is a good opportunity to cultivate brand-new emotions.