I think it is a necessary requirement, and the best form of marriage is the kind of love that "you have to".
"You have to". What's the feeling? Why do you unconsciously raise your mouth? Why do boring jobs feel interesting?
In this world, people as beautiful as her or as handsome as him are by no means rare; As talented as she/he is, she should also grasp a lot; There are many people who like reading Wang Xiaobo's books as much as you do. There should be many strong and brave people like her/him; If she is lively and lovely, it is not her patent. There are so many people passing by cafes every day, and so many people leaving for distant places every day. Why is it he/she that makes you move?
even you can't understand what contributed to this feeling, so you attribute it to "love", the kind of love that "you have to".
this feeling is too few, so love is precious.
But the reality is not as you wish. At your best age, your best state and the mood that you want to love most, someone just comes into your life. Of course, if there really is such a love in the right place at the right time, please cherish it. What if not?
Today, a friend was asked, is it because you are single for so many years and don't find a partner that you don't look forward to love?
In fact, being single all the time is the most conservative and the most cautious about love. Who says we don't look forward to love? It's just that when he/she hasn't come, you can't just find one. All you can do is wait patiently. Take good care of yourself, spend a good time with a person, and greet his/her arrival in the best state.
Wait quietly, this is the torment and tribulation that life gives you. Only those who are complacent and always believe in love can live up to their time and have a chance to bump into love.
So, if you meet the love that "you have to", don't weigh the pros and cons. Take advantage of the right time, the breeze is not dry, and you and I are still alive, so let's fall in love. Fight less about right and wrong, less about giving and getting, more about tolerance and understanding, more about patience and love.
If you don't meet, please keep on getting better. If you are so strong that you don't need to be loved, you can also pursue your own path.
I am slim, carefree and fearless.
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