How to make a choice

In reality, I have a female friend. She also feels that her husband has no opinion, and she also feels strong. She is strong in life. She always suppressed her husband and gave birth to two children, a man and a woman. Married for seven or eight years, the man cheated on her because she was too strong, but my friend felt that her husband had no opinion and no ability, so his husband had been depressed, and the final result was cheating.

I think what two people want when they get married, especially girls, is happiness and security. If a man has no money, no opinion and no ambition, it is really terrible. However, the specific analysis of specific problems still needs careful consideration. Does he care about your thoughts and respect your opinions, or does he have no opinions? Generally speaking, getting married is a big event, and it is a lifelong thing. Please consider it carefully. After all, life is so stressful now.