In fact, I know he is not wrong. Sometimes I think he should let me go and spoil me. Especially in those days of every month, when I think of my boyfriend, I will dislike him very much. The more I think about it, the more disgusted I am. Always trying to find fault with him and be angry with him. Fortunately, my boyfriend has a good temper, otherwise he would have ignored me.
This psychology of women is actually out of a subconscious self-protection. Usually, they think, if the other person doesn't let her go when they are in love, how can they live in the future? Therefore, girls will intentionally or unintentionally set some obstacles for boyfriends in love to see if they can tolerate themselves. Grumpy is just one of the test methods, and of course it is also the most commonly used one. For example, deliberately being late for an appointment depends mainly on how your boyfriend will react. As long as he shows a little unhappy color, it is inevitable that he will be bombarded by his girlfriend, and maybe he will be severely reprimanded and the game will be over.
In fact, a woman who loses her temper is very cute. If she is with a girl who never loses her temper, it's like drinking plain water. Although she quenches her thirst, she will definitely feel dull after a long time, because it is human nature to like novelty rather than invariability.
Sometimes, it is also because of women's unique physiological reasons. In the menstrual cycle changes, endocrine disorders, physical weakness, poor resistance, causing autonomic nervous system dysfunction, most women will be irritable. These are all understandable. As a boyfriend, you should be considerate and concerned about your girlfriend during this time, and don't over-stimulate each other.
Women in love are anxious about more things, and women's irritability also comes from insecurity and self-confidence.
Male colleagues around me always complain that their girlfriends are difficult to serve. Are you romantic? He said that you are a good lover, so you are not romantic. He said you were not in the mood. In short, it is not left or right.
Women are emotional animals. She is very sensitive emotionally and fragile at the same time. When two lovers have an argument, a woman's emotional fragility will be manifested as a love of losing her temper.
Sometimes, women's irritability also comes from insecurity and self-confidence. Especially adolescent girls, with the maturity of sexual psychology, are more and more concerned about their gender roles and physical characteristics, and whether they are slim and beautiful is something that worries and annoys her.
Women in love are anxious about more things, which is why they love to be angry. At the same time, it is also a manifestation of women's emotional independence.
Women's endurance is relatively small, and they still feel weak in their hearts. Once some things are unbearable, they will find an outlet to vent, and the boyfriend around them will naturally become the object of venting. In love, men are less angry than women.
This is because men are more rational, more independent and always play the role of the strong in society. This role will be brought into a love relationship, showing strong endurance, strong sense of responsibility, and not being fond of losing his temper.
In our cultural tradition, men are always required to be generous, generous, calm and tolerant, and don't haggle over every ounce. For women, society can accept their changeable personality.