I am a serious stutterer myself. Since the first day of junior high school, due to the teacher's abuse, my stuttering has grown from scratch, from light to heavy. I have been distressed and thought about suicide, but my life has to go on, go on. Although I was ridiculed and teased many times, I never lost confidence. So what can I do? Just take the exam again. What if I stutter at work and others look down on me? I have given up on myself for four years. I used to drink and play mahjong every day to kill my depression, but I found that others looked down on you even more. I made up for it with other advantages. I majored in finance, so I took the exam. I passed the accounting qualification examination within one year. In the second year, our group company sent a financial officer from each branch to Shanghai University of Finance and Economics for training. I am the only person in our branch who is qualified to train for one year and take this opportunity to pass the exam. Nearly 1 000 people in this super-large state-owned enterprise are engaged in finance and don't know me. It's not that I'm famous for stuttering (of course, my stuttering is also famous, and everyone in our branch knows it), because it's too difficult to get CPA in our remote small city, but I succeeded. Although my stutter is still there, I can tell which branch or group I will go to, and everyone is very polite to check the accounts. Until 2003, I resigned and went to a large listed company in the coastal area to apply for auditing. I think I only have a stutter, but I can't speak well. After working for several months, the former state-owned enterprise refused to let me out, and I had no children. After having a child, I was eager to leave the polluted northwest, regardless of the threat of the unit detaining files and other means, and resolutely came to the south to audit the headquarters of listed companies I had been to before.
My stuttering hasn't changed much. I can't say a word when it's serious, but I still go to the branch to check my work. When communicating problems, the branch manager and the person in charge of finance are very uncomfortable because I stutter badly, but we must listen respectfully and patiently to any questions.
As can be seen from my example, stuttering is not everyone's respect for your standards. It is important that you learn to make use of other advantages to make up for your own shortcomings. In May, when you were on a business trip in Hunan, Zhou Xun, a movie star, came out as a guest of honor. He spoke very slowly, which was not very good. One of my colleagues said, "You can't even speak clearly, and you are ashamed to come out and present awards." I immediately replied, "You have a good eloquence. Why are you still here? It stands to reason that he should be more famous than Zhou Xun. " He blushed at once, so we stutterers must have confidence and work hard. Stuttering is only a small part of our life. Don't blame all the hardships on stuttering, and don't impose all the unfortunate reasons on stuttering. Many famous people who stutter live better than normal people. They rely on more efforts than ordinary people. Why don't we put our limited life on hard work and struggle, but always stare at stuttering? Stuttering makes us restless day and night. Stuttering makes us deviate from the course of life. Stuttering makes us live in its shadow forever, rejoicing because of its decrease and sad because of its increase. Is it worthy of our attention?
Sometimes I really hate myself, because I have been controlled by stuttering for so many years. Although stuttering has little influence on my work and life, it has a great influence on my mood. People call me cold and introverted. In fact, I am also afraid of stuttering, and I am afraid that others will laugh at me. Before others whispered, I thought others were saying I stuttered. Who dares to say that I will fight with whoever I stutter with? For this reason, I quarreled with the manager and secretary of the unit and struck a table with them. Now that I think about it, I feel really ridiculous. I do stutter, and I stutter badly. There is nothing wrong with others pointing it out. You are told to speak slowly. That's right. Why are you covering your ears?
Admit your stuttering, have time to expose your stuttering, let it come when it is time, why refuse? Is the attachment of life itself, why not try to win respect with the advantages that others don't have! Why do you want to live a coward! Why don't you stand up from now on! Is it the patent of stuttering patients to mourn their misfortunes and anger their indisputable? Is it the lifelong regret of our stuttering patients?
Finally, I end with one sentence. As long as we are determined to succeed, failure can never crush us! What we need is action and struggle, not depression and lament! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !