To get rid of carelessness, we should pay attention to the following aspects:
(1) Understand the reasons for your carelessness and find out the crux. For example, some students can't concentrate on their studies and are careless and forgetful. In the long run, it will form a vicious circle, that is, the problem of carelessness. Therefore, when studying, we should concentrate all our energy and develop serious study habits.
(2) Develop the habit of careful inspection. When you finish your homework or answer the paper, remind yourself repeatedly in your mind that you must carefully check every question, look carefully, concentrate on it, finish your homework correctly and answer the paper well. In this way, you can repeatedly warn yourself and remind yourself that you can gradually develop the habit of being patient and meticulous and overcome carelessness.
(3) Every time I make a careless mistake, I will give myself a punishment, or write down the reasons for the mistake and read it several times at ordinary times, or warn myself and say to myself: Why am I careless when others are not careless? No, I can't. If everything I know is wrong, what can I do? A person who is not serious and responsible can't achieve great things. I am still young. I must overcome it and let me study and live better. I will succeed. Carelessness is not my patent. It can't control me. I have to get over it.
(4) In daily life, start with small things and take everything seriously. Every day, try to do everything well. Stick to it, so as to overcome the problems of impatience and panic.
What if I can't concentrate?
If the problem of your child's inattention is not due to pathological inattention, but to the normal inattention shown by the child during his growth, then the following methods may be useful to you.
1. Children with inattention should not spend too much time studying from the beginning. You can divide your homework into several parts in a short and quick way, appreciate his ability in inspiring language, let him finish some parts first, praise him immediately after completing the task, and then let him rest for a few minutes. After a period of time, you can gradually increase your child's study time as appropriate. Let the children improve their self-control a little bit in this process. Pupils have poor tolerance of nervous system. Being in a state of tension for a long time or engaging in monotonous schoolwork will cause fatigue. Let the children watch TV for a long time at night, and never urge them to go to bed early and get up early, which leads to lack of sleep and inability to concentrate. Therefore, it is necessary to formulate a reasonable daily routine system so that children can get enough rest and sleep, which is to ensure that children are full of energy.
You should understand that the child's inattention is not intentional. Don't often compare your children with other children. Parents should especially care about their children's self-esteem and encourage them more, instead of scolding them at every turn. Children's self-motivation and self-esteem are educational resources that parents can use. Parents should have positive expectations for their children and handle and solve them calmly, calmly and wisely according to the specific circumstances of the matter. It is necessary to minimize reprimands to children. In daily life, there are many places to reprimand children. You must keep proper efforts in "reprimanding" and "praising" and praise your children often. Parents should severely criticize the child for making a big mistake, but they should not simply and rudely scold him when criticizing. Instead, we should pay attention to methods, be strict first and then slow down, and do a good job in children's psychological work. Only in this way can he be convinced.
3. Most children who are inattentive have poor grades, and the homework content is too deep, which is beyond their existing knowledge structure and children can't understand it. They will naturally feel afraid of difficulties, lack of security and self-confidence, lack of patience in homework or emotional distress. This may lead to inattention. Only when the content is moderately different from the child's knowledge and experience, it is the easiest to attract and keep the child's attention. At this time, parents can adopt a plan of retreating for progress, reduce the difficulty of knowledge, improve children's understanding ability of autonomous learning, and make up for the knowledge gap. After that, they can understand what the teacher said and communicate with the teacher, and their attention will be focused on their lessons for a long time. Therefore, interest is the best teacher. Once a child is interested in learning, he will concentrate and concentrate. At this time, parents must pay attention to it and encourage their children to further develop their interests. It is forbidden to be enthusiastic for a while, fishing for three days and drying the net for two days.
In the process of children's growth, it is very important to give them certain responsibilities. The task entrusted to him should be within his power. Once he has completed the task, he should admit and praise it even if it is not satisfactory. Let children know the goals of study and struggle and achieve them through their own efforts. Only in this way can we better cultivate their attention. At the same time, parents should improve the quality of guidance, make time to listen to some expert lectures, flexibly use the knowledge in family education, know the children's actual achievements and psychological characteristics in real time, and let the children have a strong interest in what they want to do, thus stimulating their curiosity, cultivating their interest in learning and promoting their concentration.
Parents can cultivate their children's reading ability from an early age. Children who are inattentive are generally accompanied by the habit of reading comic books with pictures instead of books. In particular, parents should cultivate the habit of fast reading, guess the meaning of words with the help of context, and exercise their children to dictate stories after reading. !
6. If parents take many measures, they are passive in front of their children, and the children's resistance is very serious and they can't cooperate effectively, which shows that the children have developed the psychology of parent-child drowning, that is, when the school is out of control, parents can't control it. I suggest that parents find a learning method and psychological education institution nearby, like Xiao Kai above, and cultivate their study habits with a full-time closed mode. According to my experience in regulating this kind of children, the effect of this method is. Through targeted make-up training, generally about six months, children's awareness of learning will be greatly improved, the speed and accuracy of homework will be greatly improved, and at the same time, their life, manners and temperament will also be greatly changed.
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In my opinion, we should start with the details and correct him bit by bit. . In order to fundamentally solve the problem! !