Su Yue took an affair case before. This case is a typical case of a good man cheating.
It turns out that Ms. Lu married her husband 14 years. They have a son and a daughter. They have been in love for many years. Her husband is the manager of a state-owned enterprise. Ms. Lu opened a clothing store and hired several shop assistants to take care of the children at home. She can take care of her family, her career and a stable income, and at the same time she can take care of herself.
Her husband has always been very kind to her, and there are only three kinds of friends, wife, children and work. Therefore, her husband is recognized as a good husband in their social circle, and she has always felt that she is married to love. The result is that such a good man who shows off his wife and children in his circle of friends every day and shows his love to everyone is derailed.
Ms. Lu never thought that her husband would cheat, let alone that her husband's mistress would be her best girlfriend. This girlfriend is the manager of Ms. Lu's clothing store. They met in high school and have a friendship of more than 20 years. San Xiao was married before. She married far away and gave birth to three daughters. However, because her husband's family preferred sons to daughters, she was allowed to continue to have children.
This is also bad for San Xiao's daughter. San Xiao couldn't help getting divorced, but because San Xiao had been a housewife before and couldn't afford to raise three children, she finally got custody of her newborn daughter and took her back to her hometown. Ms. Lu helped a lot, not only to find a house, but also to take care of her children.
After she later opened a clothing store, she asked San Xiao to work and gave San Xiao 30% of the profits. However, I didn't expect San Xiao to bite the hand that feeds her. She is with Ms. Lu's husband. If San Xiao hadn't sent the information about the cheating man to Ms. Lu, she would never have found out. When she found out, she had a showdown with the cheating man. After more than a year of tripartite entanglement, Ms. Lu thought that her husband would easily return to the family, but she was wrong.
I don't want to be superior, I just want to be with the man who cheated on me, that is, a threesome. The three people have been entangled for more than a year. Ms. Lu didn't want to continue to entangle, so she came to Su Yue for help, hoping that I could help her solve her extramarital affairs.
First of all, analyze the reasons why Ms. Lu's husband cheated. Why is a good man attracted to mistress? As long as people define it as? Good people? That means doing well in many aspects, and wanting to do well means paying more.
Good men spend more time, energy, patience and physical strength at home than ordinary men and pay much more than ordinary men. Many men will be exhausted after paying so much for a long time, and it is easy to take advantage at this time. The fact that Ms. Lu's husband's mistress is her best friend also proves this point. Because there is any contradiction between husband and wife, women always like to tell their girlfriends that as long as they have the heart, their girlfriends will intervene in the contradiction period of two people and induce men to cheat.
So, if you marry a good man's wife, don't get used to it and take it for granted that a cheating man is good, right? Good people? Lack of proper care and attention.
Secondly, analyze Xiao San's psychology, why Xiao San will repay her kindness and rob her best friend's husband.
Women will compare with each other, especially when they are equal at first, but then the gap between them gradually widens. The third one is unhappy, but the original one is very happy. Happiness and misfortune are all due to marriage. However, when Xiao San returns to her hometown, accepts the help of the original match for a long time, sees the happiness of the original match for a long time, and compares her own misfortune, it is easy to give birth to bad ideas.
For example, I have the same conditions as her. She just married a better man than me, and now she lives better than me. If I steal her man, I can live well. Many girlfriends and mistresses are jealous that their friends are better off than themselves, so they will interfere with their friends' marriage.
Moreover, Ms. Lu's girlfriend is also a girlfriend. How did Ms. Lu find out about this affair? Is it mistress? Wrong hairstyle? Information. Therefore, Xiao San is a scheming Xiao San, and getting involved in marriage must have been premeditated for a long time. In the end, it can't be for a threesome. The purpose must be to replace it.
Finally, in the face of such a situation, how should Ms. Lu deal with mistress and save her marriage?
Why does the cheating man refuse to be separated from the mistress? Because Xiao San is under the banner of threesome, this is the result that all derailed men want most, but the reality is that Xiao San's purpose is to replace it, saying that it is only to know the contradiction between the original match and the derailed man.
What Ms. Lu needs to do is not to jump into the trap of Xiao San, while maintaining a good relationship with her husband, and then cutting off Xiao San's income source and forcing Xiao San to expose her true colors. The first day when Xiao San was exposed was when Xiao San was successfully separated.
In addition, for men who cheat, the original match should also be played. The title of a good man can always bring many benefits to cheating men. In particular, her husband is still working in a state-owned enterprise, so Ms. Lu not only wants Xiaosan to expose her purpose of finding an derailed man,
It is also necessary to guide the mistress to the workplace of the derailed man, so that the derailed man can pay a painful price for his derailment, so that the derailed man can completely sever the relationship with the mistress, and at the same time know the disadvantages of derailment, and dare to cheat again in the future.
In fact, in today's society, women have long since stopped loving bad men, and mistresses have begun to like finding good men. In extramarital affairs, many mistresses pursue men's Excellence. What they want is a good man who loves his family and his wife.
What woman doesn't want a man who has good conditions in all aspects and is extremely fond of herself? Even other people's husbands want to take it for themselves. So many times? Good people? The more temptations you face, the more chances you will cheat.
You can refuse once, twice, three times and four times, but you may not be able to refuse more temptations, so it will happen that a good man will cheat. Therefore, the original partner is not your husband who loves you, but a good man who won't cheat. Marriage management is a compulsory course for all women.