For example, he plays computer all day on weekends. You can press his shoulder and say, "Cervical vertebra hurts. It's not good to face the computer all day. Stand up and move, raise your head and stretch your arms. Just wipe the dust off the tables and bookcases. " With such warm care, will he still not do it? Spoil and show weakness, "command" him with a man's sense of responsibility. If you keep working hard and quietly clean up everything, men will not see it, let alone appreciate your efforts. Over time, housework will become your "patent"
So sometimes, you have to learn to pass the housework on to him. For example, "honey, I'm not feeling well these days." I can't touch cold water Would you please help me wash those clothes? " Do you think he has the courage not to wash? For that kind of super lazy man, you can take risks.
For example, when you mop the floor, suddenly a flash of light flashed on your waist. He quickly told you to have a rest and stop mopping. Then you said anxiously, "That's no good, you haven't mopped for a week, anyway ..." It is estimated that he grabbed the mop and mopped the floor before you finished saying this. Be considerate and let him realize the benefits of doing housework. If you just watch TV for fun while he is doing housework, be careful. I don't think he will do it again next time, because he will be a little unbalanced. So remember, you can't be idle when he does housework. You have to follow him before and after running and ask him affectionately, "Husband, are you tired?" Drink some water and wipe your sweat! " "If you follow closely like a little follower, he will feel that doing housework is something to be proud of, and he will take the initiative to do it without you calling him.
Highly praised, let him realize his self-worth in housework, not only care about him, but also worship him. If he is cooking, you have to boast: "Husband, your spicy chicken is really a must, much more delicious than taoranju!" If it's cleaning the bathroom, you have to compliment him on the manly way he brushes the toilet.
The more you praise, the prouder and happier he will be. It is something to be proud of, so you should seize every opportunity to publicize it.
Housework is a trivial matter, and it is important to let everyone know. When everyone knows that he is a good husband who can do housework, he will be praised as a model at first sight. Do you think that under such honor and aura, he can personally destroy his glorious image? You must try your best to maintain it. At that time, you can enjoy yourself!