In the early years, our village was very poor, and my family was extremely poor. In order to survive, my brother and sister moved to Tuanwa Village, 3 miles away. Because Tuanwa village is slightly rich, they have also solved the problem of food and clothing since then.
When my brother moved away, the responsibility of caring for the elderly naturally fell on my shoulders.
At that time, I was still young, only 18 years old. Although I was married, I was actually a teenager. It is better to say that the elderly are taking care of us than caring for the elderly. To put it bluntly, there is a mutual care. In the words of parents: call' big partners to court; The lame helped the blind to walk. "
Parents' hearts are bodhisattvas' hearts, and the kindness of raising them is unparalleled. Ten fingers hurt each other.
When my brother moved away, my parents blamed their incompetence for the poverty. From then on, Lacrimosa did not let go of her heart until her brother's family had enough food and clothing.
In order to help my brother build a house, my father went to the grass beach in the lower reaches of Xinyang Gate for several days in cold weather, and it was a cold day and a spring. Finally, he was successful, and he saved enough basketry and thatch for his brother to build a house. In addition, he added more than ten loads of grass to cover my house, which solved the burning problem of "big rain, big leakage and small leakage" for me. Free from the pain of' sweeping the floor in the wind and lighting the moon'
With the passage of time, my brothers and sisters and I have become people with many children one after another, and each of them is struggling in the plight of ten years of child shortage. If we say that my brother and I are in trouble, then, by contrast, my sisters are even more difficult, especially my third sister, who is miserable. My parents are all uneasy and often talk about it, which makes him worry about you. At that time, my father was still young and took turns to visit my elder sister, third sister, fourth sister and pink sister. My second sister is in Suzhou, and I can only understand by letter that my brother is far away. And then go there.
As time goes by, children are growing up day by day, parents are aging day by day, and the frequency of visits is getting rarer and rarer. In order to be filial, my brother picks them up by boat from time to time.
People always live in contradictions. Usually, they always talk about: I will go to my eldest son's house for a long time, and when I do, I will stay for a few days. Because I am unfamiliar and unaccustomed to the environment, and I miss my children and grandchildren here, I will urge my brother to send them back quickly, or I will take a letter to pick them up, and I will come back every time for a few days. In the old man's words:' gold and silver are not worth the dog's nest.' My own bunk, though humble, sleeps comfortably.
Later, as I get older, especially my mother, I get seasick. Every time I take a boat, it's like a serious illness. Later, I just don't go, and I can't go if I want to think about it.
My wife and I were the same age. Although an illiterate,' Three Obediences and Four Virtues', how to write and how to speak is completely unknown to her. However, she did it, and she did it well. She is a real oriental woman. When she was young, I felt as if she was sensible earlier than I was. At that time, I was very incompetent and often sick. I couldn't live, I couldn't bear the burden, and I was a little rootless. I was a big horse, and later I became a doctor. I was more outside and less at home. My parents have been by my side for decades, and it's really hard to honor them for her, which has become her patent. It's also because of her that my mother can live to be one in a hundred and become the first centenarian in the local history. My mother broke her femoral head at the age of ninety-two. In the next ten years, it was inconvenient to move, and she could not take care of herself completely by walking on a plank. During this period, if it weren't for her, I'm afraid she would have died. It is precisely because she is my wife who has done her filial duty for me and let me follow suit and have a good reputation. Here, I say thank you instead of my parents' underground spirit! At the same time, I also say thank you to my parents' underground spirits! Thank you for raising a good daughter, giving me a home, giving me a complete home and giving me a happy home. Unfortunately, you passed away too early and failed to give me a chance to repay you. Times have changed, and nothing can help. At present, all we can do is to be clear, burn a few sheets of paper in the New Year, and then there is endless memory, that's all. Here, I would like to propose that my sons and daughters, when sending lucky money to their ancestors, also bring a copy to their grandparents to show my humble intention. Burn paper to explore people's hearts!
My wife is a bit stubborn and introverted. She is virtuous, capable, hardworking and thrifty, and is a good wife and mother. Under the influence of her teachings, her sons and daughters have passed on her gifts.
When their parents are alive, the children are very happy with them, and often bathe, scrape their bodies, wash their feet and cut their nails. In more than eight years, there was an electric blanket. When they bought it, they wouldn't use it, and they didn't dare to use it. Ke Kun specially bought a sheepskin blanket from Beijing, and her mother used it for decades until the end.
my life has been very unlucky, full of twists and turns, and full of illness and grinding.
Born in a poor family with many children, he often ate two or one meals at the age of ten. At the beginning of school, he borrowed books and used them as paper. After graduating from primary school at the age of 16, he went straight home to work as a farmer. At the age of 18, he was admitted to Yancheng Pharmaceutical Company as an apprentice. At the age of 2, he was decentralized due to three years of natural disasters. At the age of 23, he became a health worker and sent malaria drugs. He took this opportunity to teach himself as a doctor.
during this period, there was a' 6872' poisoning case in the village. The mother of the suspect Cai Maofu? When I was staying, I was invited to see a doctor, which was suspected to be a tip-off. In addition, Xu Bao Stone pushed me out of the clinic for no reason. As the saying goes, "the city gate is on fire, and the fish in the pool are affected." Or it is called' stormy waves in the gutter.' I want to cry, and I have no way to complain. No matter how bitter Coptis is, I can only knock out my front teeth and choke on my stomach. My father is illiterate and honest, and my brother is far away, and he is a poor man with a single surname. He left himself to climb up after falling, and tried his best to go back to the clinic. After that, he was often bullied, and he managed to gain a foothold, gain a foothold, and gain certain contacts to support his family.
at the age of seventeen, I had a cough, which was the same every day, regardless of winter and summer. I often choked and choked, and I often felt flustered, chest tightness, shortness of breath and shortness of breath. I always sighed all day until I was 57 years old.
at the age of 2, I was infected with chronic bacillary dysentery, which occurred several times a year for two or three days. During the attack, I pulled out red and white peptone mucus, and my stomach ached, my limbs were weak, and my whole body was weak. I usually had a little peptone mucus, and I went to the toilet for 2 minutes or even half an hour.
Yu Fang was born on March 12, 1962, and suffered from multiple furuncles in autumn, which lasted for more than a year, and there were hundreds of them in all. On the 1th day of August of the same year, there was an unprecedented flood, and all the crops were destroyed. In the spring of 1963, I dragged a boil all over to Dongkan to pick up Hu Rubu. I hid in other people's toilets for a moment to squeeze the boil and wipe the pus. It was better to come back empty-handed in the morning, just like killing a factory on a cow. Later, my brother took Luoxu to his place to pick it up. Fortunately, many good people in his team called me to pick it up, and gave me Hu Ru Bu Yin Zi and Ma Ru Bu Yin Zi to assemble a half duck (boat). The spring sowing was over, and I didn't have to pick it up. The third team of Tuanwa plowed the seeds on the big atom, and I went to pick up very sporadic small rubu in the plough marks. At this time, an old grandson came and refused to pick up and take the basket, so I hated to meet in the shop. My sister-in-law coaxed me not to cry and wanted to slap the basket. Since then, I have been really desperate and often want to die. Today, when I mentioned this difficulty, I couldn't help crying when I wrote this article. I cried for a few minutes and couldn't calm down for a long time.
at the age of 23, he suffered from sciatica caused by lumbar disc herniation, which lasted for more than a year. He could not stand upright when walking, at least 15 degrees, and he could not sit while eating, so he could only support a tray on his ass. It recurred in 7, lasting for four years, until it got better on the sixth day of the first month of 74. In the next few decades, I had small attacks from time to time. I was young and didn't care. I could get better if I dragged on. I didn't want to make a comeback in the first month of last year and was beaten by a stick. Since then, I have been in a slump. After many treatments, I have failed, and I have never seen any improvement. When I was in July, I cried all night, so I had an operation. The postoperative pain was gone, but I was left with a lifelong disability and couldn't walk. Just fulfilled an old saying of predecessors:' People who are over eighty-eight don't know whether they are lame or blind.' At present, the legs from the hips to the toes are still numb and sometimes dull.
At the age of twenty-five, she suffered from tachycardia and arrhythmia, which lasted for more than seven years and didn't stabilize until the age of thirty-two.
forty-eight-year-old suffers from chronic enteritis, diarrhea 3-5 times or even 7-8 times a day, incontinence, and untidy underwear. The industry used to walk in front of people, making people not like people, ghosts not ghosts, afraid of being spurned, and embarrassed to walk in front of people. It was not until I was 57 years old that I met a' perfect' health care product, and chronic diarrhea was cured together with choking and rhinitis.
In 1992, Zhao Wanming's wife was sick and was in critical condition. At that time, the traffic was inconvenient, and out of kindness, she wanted to be rescued and then went to the hospital. As a result, she died, and she lost 6, yuan in cash, with a total loss of nearly 1, yuan. It was not long after the debt was issued, but it got stuck again.
I am about 5 years old and suffer from chronic rhinitis. The normal pain of the posterior nasal meatus following the palate is unbearable. Whenever I reach the bowl at one end of a meal, a large amount of clear water and nose will drip down the bowl, and I will drop it into the bowl if I am not careful. I can't eat without a napkin in my left hand, which is extremely embarrassing when I am a guest. I often take medicine. At first, it was tetracycline. When I was allergic, I changed to sulfamethoxazole and sulfamethoxazole. It was big and bitter, and it was irritating to my stomach. I always ate it next to me all the year round. It was estimated that I would eat it for more than half a year, and I was always spared on the first day of the New Year for several years. For the convenience of taking, simply put it directly with the salty bowl. It has become an indispensable part of eating. Novostigmine scares me, but I can't live without it. Later, it was' perfection' that made rhinitis disappear for several years, and then it reappeared, never giving up, rising and falling, lingering until now.
56-year-old diabetic, often hungry, extremely thirsty, dizzy and itchy all over. When I first fell ill, my feelings were very fragile. I thought I was going to die soon, and my temper was already dry. Coupled with some external factors, I was annoyed all day, which made me even more dry and nameless. Practice has proved that this is not the case. Twenty years later, I am still alive. Generally speaking, for now, my spirit is OK!
sixty-five-year-old (January 18th, 27) got a strange disease, first diarrhea, three or four times a day; Then I had a cramp in my leg, and I started to smoke at one o'clock every night and smoked at four or five o'clock, until I cried, making my life worse than death; Then there is a dull pain in my stomach and mouth, and there is a strange smell in my mouth that I can't tell. When I smell the smell of cook the meat and the rice fragrance just penetrated in the rice cooker, I will go straight to my forehead and leave immediately. Eat the same, hurt the same, and finally only black sesame paste can be eaten. Please ask my aunt and niece Yuzhen Yang to buy a mackerel, only eat one bite, not choke, and spit it out, almost sleepy. My two sons accompanied me to the hospital to find out nothing. Finally, I saw an advertisement on the ninth day of April and bought a health care product-Calcium Duobang. It will be fine on April 11th. But four years later, the cramp reappeared, sometimes light and sometimes heavy. Until today, it is still entangled, and it is frequently smoked after midnight almost every day, and it is officially punished before dawn.
brain sounds, which are neither painful nor itchy, can't be seen nor touched, are indifferent to others, but it's different when you are there. As the saying goes,' You never know what it's like to be sick unless you are sick.' Or like cicadas, or like crickets, day and night, endless and tireless lingering for five years. Sometimes I am upset and at a loss.
The eyes are extremely itchy, and others don't know it. The pain is no less than pain. You should always rub, rub and wipe with facial tissue, and even use your nails? Picking and pinching are still not itchy, and I have been to the First Hospital and Shuguang to see them. In the past 2 years, my eyes have slowly become a crack, making people look ugly. In fact, it is not my fault, and I can't stop it.
Children often hear people laughing and joking about the old man:' Old people are weak in strength, and they can't pee. They cry in the wind and cough up.' I didn't care at that time. In his later years, my father always had a strong smell of shame. I don't know at ordinary times. Once it was too serious, I said,' Dad! You change your clothes frequently, the smell is too strong, we don't care, someone can't enter the house. " Well, one by one! Baoyiyibao, young man! I can't help it! You will know when you are my age.' Exactly, I followed in my father's footsteps. Yes, although my father can't read, but my father is not useless, my father is not a slovenly person, so I think it's better to be old than young! In recent years, I have been getting up frequently, urinating frequently, urinating urgently, urinating endlessly, for a long time, and my urine is bifurcated. Sometimes I see that my urine has gone out, so I pay attention to it again. At the end of the day, my pants are still damp, and I am ashamed to see people. I have to hold my legs and lean over to try not to be seen, so I can't stand by and lick my pants.
there are many things, or it's not worth saying, or it's hard to say.
alas! Don't say it, it's useless to say it. It's more appropriate to say it's an eventful autumn. As the saying goes,' the dome is not ahead, and the old is not like a teenager.'
When I was young, some people said that I was' a loser, walking with my head in a pit, my eyes looking at my feet, my shoulders hanging down, and poking turtles along the river.' My father is a sharp-tongued, heartless man who hates iron and never produces steel. He swears at me all day and calls me' sick'? , slack off? , worthless, not scheming, the cut on the head is not heavy, etc ......................................................................................................................................................... Rao is so, he still hangs upside down at the end of the year, and it is inevitable that his heart will be angry, and sometimes he will be angry with me.
At that time, Chang Meng was short-sighted and always wanted to forget all about it. In fact, it's not easy to die, but there are many things that can't be let go: first, if that happens, it will be cruel for the second veteran to spend the rest of his life in the pain of losing his son; Secondly, the widow will be faced with the choice of widowhood and remarriage, either of which will be Wan Jian's heart-breaking, and I don't know why I am embarrassed; Thirdly, Yu Fang and Ke Zan, two hungry swallows, will suffer endless ravages from others. Fourthly, in that case, the support of the parents will be shouldered by my brother, who is already overwhelmed by the heavy load of many children. How can I bear it? ! ? ! ? !
I think twice, but I can't make up my mind. I have a lot of unshirkable responsibilities to shoulder. It is better to live than to die. I had to pretend to be deaf and dumb, submit to humiliation, crustily skin of head, go to what mountain, cut what firewood, and go to what day.
Sometimes I think that it's sunny and sunny, and there are days and nights, and there is a lack of gardens in the moon. God can't leave me alone and never care for me, so in fact, I just' steal tears where there is no one, pretend to smile in front of people, drag out an ignoble existence and spend the day, but wait until the haze comes out.' Secret oath: if there is a day of prosperity, I will definitely live a personal life. Make sure that parents and wives can enjoy a late night.
at the age of 3, I gradually improved, and throughout my prime, I had a pleasant journey.
father, I'm mumbling, but I heard a convenient recipe or something outside, and he always wanted to drill a hole for me to eat. He also accompanied me to Suzhou to see a doctor once. In particular, there is one thing that I will never forget: I will never forget it.