What does it feel like to be unwilling?

I am an educated youth who has been in the countryside for eight years. I am physically and mentally exhausted, I have suffered a lot, and my future is bleak.

1977 resumed the college entrance examination in winter, because it was not ready to lose. At that time, I worked in a forest farm and spent all my time studying hard.

1978 summer college entrance examination again, the preparation is more adequate. At that time, liberal arts and science were on a piece of paper. I remember when I took the math test, the paper showed: liberal arts 1. 1 16, science1.18, which was a sub-topic. I don't know why, I only did 1 and 8 questions, but I dropped a lot of points and dropped the list.

As an educated youth, I really don't want to lose a good opportunity to jump the farm gate. If you don't want to, just hold your horses and continue your study.

/kloc-at the end of 0/978, the educated youth returned to the city, and the lucky star finally fell on my head. I was recruited into a state-owned enterprise, and the good days began.

1979 At the beginning of this year, China Central Radio and TV University enrolled students, and I was admitted. I studied in RTVU for three years with pay and got a college degree, and my fate changed from then on. From workers to national cadres to civil servants.

20 13 I retired, but I was unwilling to put it in my heart like a needle, inspiring me to study hard. After retirement, he is still studying and researching, and obtained the national invention patent certificate on 20 18.

I'm still climbing on the road, and I don't want to hurt people.

What does it feel like to be unwilling? Unwilling is not convinced and does not admit defeat! What should I do if I am unwilling? Catch up and work hard. I remember when I was in primary school, I was very naughty. In class, I made a gun with my hand and shot at the teacher on the podium. The students at the next table found out about it and immediately reported it to the teacher. The teacher was very angry and didn't want me to take his class. No way, I transferred to another class in the same grade to continue my study.

I'm not convinced by this, and I didn't make any big mistakes, just being naughty. But I secretly made up my mind that I must study hard and show this to the teacher. Later, I really got better, my academic performance went up, and I was no longer naughty. The class cadre changed from the middle captain to the captain.

After this incident, it touched me a lot and affected my life. Due to the Cultural Revolution, the school was closed, so I couldn't study, so I entered the military camp. Because he was unwilling, he gradually grew from an ordinary soldier to an intermediate commander and became a famous writer in Tibet. Therefore, this is really a kind of motivation, which will encourage you to keep making progress, dare to fight for wealth and be brave in making progress!

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In my opinion, I don't want to have multiple interpretations:

1. can't compare with others in study, work and career. But I feel that my potential has not been brought into play and I am not satisfied. This phenomenon is still relatively common, mostly happening to people full of positive energy. These people are smart, studious, self-motivated and unwilling to lag behind. If they find themselves weaker than others and are not persuaded, they will secretly cheer and try to catch up with or surpass others.

I feel dissatisfied when I am hit, criticized or punished. This problem can be seen from two aspects: first, there is a gap in self-knowledge, thinking that they have done a good job, being unfairly attacked, criticized or punished, being dissatisfied, feeling wronged and wronged, which often leads to dissatisfaction. In fact, it's not that the leadership is unfair, but that I don't know myself well enough to see my own problems clearly. Second, it is really wronged, which belongs to the mistakes of leaders or everyone's prejudice, and will also cause a person's unwillingness.

3. If you can't get what you want and do what you want, it's easy to feel unwilling. This situation is also very common. If a person falls in love with the opposite sex, but no matter how hard he tries, he can't get what he wants, then this person will feel unwilling and will continue to fight for it, either to realize his wish or to hit a wall. Some people want to do something, such as running a chicken farm, but they fail for various reasons, but they are not willing to fail. By summing up their experience, they found out the reasons for their failure, prepared the conditions and made a comeback.

I feel that these are the main interpretations of unwillingness. Please correct and supplement.

I'm Su Nan Pei Qing, welcome to comment and discuss.

What I don't want to do now is that I'm almost fifty and still studying. Coming out of the airport today, the taxi driver asked me, why don't you get married? I said, study. He said, school? I said, either go to school or watch what you want to see. He said, what should you do when you are old? Not adopting a child? I said, no, I can take the money to the nursing home. He said, if you die, isn't it all someone else's? I said, how can it be someone else's? Nursing costs are high, and I will need the money eventually.

This is a dialogue between rural people and urban people, and it is also a dialogue between two ideologies. Both feel that the other party is unreasonable. I just think my life is more important than getting married. Why?

Some people say that you are over the age of studying, why do you still study? Your French class cost 3 thousand yuan, and you didn't even hear it. I still spend money in it. It is not worth explaining to her. Summer insects talk about ice and sit in the well and watch the sky. That's what they say. Marriage is by no means the only pleasure in life, and the pleasure of mastering knowledge is not for everyone.

Unwilling, just want to surpass all people. I want to be better, stronger, more beautiful, more handsome and taller than all others. I don't want to be the gas station, power source and starting point for losers to win. Unwilling to make people have the spiritual ideal of determination, confidence, perseverance, hope and victory under the action of passion. It is a good sign that a person is unwilling, but doing things within the scope of obeying the law is the criterion of being a man.

Just because what you have paid has not been rewarded, your heart is unbalanced! If so, it means that you are a little psychologically distorted. You firmly believe that what you give will be rewarded, and there are many performances. Let it go, let it go, and have a clear conscience.

I can't put it down, I can't pick it up, I'm stuck in the middle, I can't pick it up.

Why not be reconciled?

Chances are, you never gave up.

We hesitate to wander outside the corner of the new world, trying to get close, we are too timid.

A person, because unwilling, will not be afraid of failure, and then have enough courage to think and do; Because he is unwilling, he will be full of hope and vitality under any circumstances; Because he is unwilling, he will not regard bad life as fate; Because he is unwilling, he will have the desire to change.

Unwilling, at least it means that you are not a complete coward, which means that you don't like some aspects of yourself at heart. But more importantly, you shouldn't just watch yourself in a daze and do nothing. Take action, as long as you try your best, everything you don't want to do will change!

I don't want to, I don't have a father, so the father of an official makes his descendants an official! ! ,,,, so still unwilling! ! !

Unwilling is not willing to admit defeat, thinking that you should not be in such a state of mind.

For example, they didn't do well in the college entrance examination, and they don't want to think that they are more than this level, so many people go to repeat, hoping to achieve ideal results in the coming year.

Go ahead in your work, be self-motivated and persevere. Work like this, and your life will be motivated.

The feeling of continuing to work hard