Many people think that women are thin-skinned and afraid of being rejected. In fact, men's faces are thinner than women's faces, and they are more afraid of rejection. Their self-esteem is as fragile as eggshells. The more you approve of him, the easier it is for him to speak his mind. When telling the deepest secret, people often have to make sure whether the other party can accept it, because this secret is the treasure in their hearts. Don't think that a man doesn't care about anything. He always observes you carefully before speaking.
If you love him, accept him more and give him more affirmation. Only in this way, he will tell the whole story, and he will not have a psychological barrier to you, and you will enter his inner world more easily.
2. Become his habit
People always have various habits, such as drinking a brand of drinks, drinking soup before eating, asking you to adjust your tie before going out, and holding your hand when going out ... Once people suddenly get rid of these habits, you will find yourself very uncomfortable, very uncomfortable.
To win a man easily, you need to be a part of his habit and an indispensable part of him. So you should gradually penetrate into his life, making him feel comfortable, unconscious, free from depression and bondage, just like the air in water. Once one day he finds that there is no you around him, he will live like a fish without air. In this way, he will be locked up by you!
3. Be his soul mate
It is not easy to be a man's soul mate. You need to know him well enough to find his inner clues from his smile and every move.
Society has given men more responsibilities, and they must support their wives, which requires them to have a strong heart, but not all men's hearts are indestructible, and they all have a soft place in their hearts. Whenever they encounter great work pressure or life setbacks, they all want to lie in your gentle arms and tell them in detail. Only you can be the object of his talk and his spiritual support. He will share happiness with others, but the real inner pain is only for you.
Become his soul mate, then his life without you is unimaginable.
Create a romantic surprise
But in life, it is often the old couple's meaning just in the middle of love, and there is no romance and passion in love. It's not that men don't love life, but they are afraid of a mediocre life, afraid that intense time will kill the once beautiful princess in their hearts.
If you want to keep a relationship or marriage fresh, you should do more.
Create some romantic surprises. Don't think that making surprises is a man's patent. You can also make romance and passion everywhere for the person you love, so that in his eyes, you will always be the heartbeat when you first meet.
Make him feel relaxed
Happiness lies not in the pursuit of perfection.
People, but with a considerable person trying to establish a perfect relationship. Taking care of him too much, flattering him too much will spoil him, but being too arrogant will make him afraid of you. Love needs moderate air and oxygen, and you will always be the one who stays close to him. If he calls, you will leave as promised; If he sends you flowers, you should praise him for his chic; If he wants to be alone, you turn around and walk away-but there will be a phone call at night.
Now many men become fear of marriage, not because he doesn't love this woman and doesn't want to marry her, but because the hardships of women make him tremble with fear.
6. Exercise the courage to listen to the truth
Many men think that women want or need beautiful lies. Many men are afraid to tell their partners what happened in their lives or how they really feel, because it will disappoint them.
In fact, many women like to control men with emotions-and then control their relationship. Women often ask men to make specific responses. For example, whenever she cries, men will immediately carry them on their shoulders, accompanied by a very gentle whisper. Women will be depressed if they don't get it. In fact, this is a hint that men should not tell the truth.
Willing to hear the truth is the beginning of a truly mature sexual relationship, which will make men feel that they have a reliable partner and can suffer from it. Don't deceive yourself and don't lose heart. Maybe you can't accept all the facts yet, but you can certainly exercise your endurance if you want.
7. Explore * * * maximization.
8. Become the darling of mother-in-law.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a big killer of marriage. Many happily married men and women, because of the intervention of their mother-in-law, eventually led to unhappy marriage. Mother's words are the soft underbelly of all obedient boys in the world. Men think that mothers are unique, and their girlfriends or wives can be found back if they are lost. Therefore, if you want to win a man, you must be the darling of your mother-in-law, so as not to be disturbed by her mother-in-law in marriage or love.
Find a reason to see his mother and please her old man. If the old lady praises you in front of him again and again, he will probably never kick you out. 9. Turn his room into a world for two.